Here is the situation.....  

sullangirrrrrl 37F
32 posts
9/13/2005 1:38 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Here is the situation.....

If u read my profile...I am in a SHITTY situation right now with hubby...

I am gonna use this blog page to record my finding with AdultFriendFinder and see if it can give me anything...

Here is my criteria...

I want a man to make me feel sexy and like he can't stand not having me. I love the sex to be passionate. I don't want to just go through the motions for the sake of an orgasm...i can get all that with my vibrator. I love being submissive. Like pull my hair smack my ass and call me a long as it is safe. I am gonna be honest about this. I am the most NON shallow person when it comes to my life. I don't judge people based on looks. But, if u are older than 30's, not in shape, and dont take care of yourself..please spare me. No offense, but if i am gonna actually cheat..u need to be smokin. I typically go for guys that are lean to med. build. I like muscle tone..but not bulky huge muscles. If u are a body builder no thanks. Also, i love the bad boy/rockstar image. If u are a biker/or redneck...please don't waste your time or mine. I am really into dark hair and light eyes...but if u have it going on any other way let me know. I am serious about this shit...if u contact me and u are like TOTALLY not what i am describing...i will just delete. I hate that. I know what I like...and i can't apologize for that. UPDATE::::: For all u guys wanting to know if u meet my EXTREAMLY picky it is...PLEASE don't say u fit and then send me a pic and u are like 50 with light hair...a gut....a mustache....etc. Be what i want...or move on. Dark hair...preferably...if light it is ok but its gotta work on the whole package. hair style messy...edgy. Like picture current trendy styles...any alternative rock band...messy dirty look..etc. NO BIKER...long hair redneck looks...sorry im just not inot that. Lean/athletic build. More towards skinny than meaty or way built. Style again...i am a rock if u are corporate of business no thanks...i like the bad boy. tats and piercings are WAY hot. I like that a lot... I think that is a good idea...if u are still a little confused but are pretty damn close...let me know. But again....if u are not ANYWHERE near this description...for the love of god....move on. There is someone her for everybody...

That is straight from my profile. It seems pretty DAMN detailed right? So why is it that I can start to talk to a guy, direct them to my profile, ask them again if they are my type from what they read...and they are like oh yeah. Then the picture of them is sent and i am like...WHAT THE FUCK?? They don't look ANYTHING like what i described.

That is why I am doing this...For the ladies...most of these dudes will say anything to fuck. I mean that is how it is in real life right? Not just on AdultFriendFinder....fuckers.

necrolight 35M
6 posts
9/13/2005 2:46 pm

WOW, at least you know what you want! But you seem very judgmental and I cant stand that, I am not looking to get laid I have a great

But anyway I hope you dont do anything stupid or dangerous.

I have allways been "goth" as some might call it. New to my area and just looking for good times I hope your not as mean as your blog, but regardless I look foward to some intelectual communication perhaps in a mutual manner..... anyway. Please respect yourself

digdug41 49M

9/13/2005 3:11 pm

well good luck on your search I'm into the music scene being a musician but I dont fit your bill I think? besides being a black man I am in decent shape but most of all I know how to treat a woman well like I said good luck on your search and welcome to blogland

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

letigre1974 42M

9/13/2005 3:33 pm

Hey sullangirrrrrl. I'm just saying hi and thanks for being honest. I know I'm not your match, but I just wante to wish you the best of luck, and hope you find your man. Just curious though, what kind of rock chick are you? I am on more of a Q.O.T.S.A. type guy. At anyrate, good luck, you'll need it.

NickRules999 39M
9464 posts
9/13/2005 8:19 pm


If you like music, I have an intrest group on here called Nick's Music Page. I would be greatly honoured if you took a look.

I'm not gonna waste your time and tell you I'm your type. Hell, I'm not even in your area. I have no qualms about corespondence, however. If you like to, cool. If not, that's cool, too.

I wish you the best of luck. I hope you find what you're looking for, and I also hope you can work out your marriage issues. Usually, affairs lead to disaster, but that's my own opinion. I'm not judging you.

Good luck. I hope to read more of your blog, and hope you swing my mine as well. Thanks.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

stlscorpios 37M
9 posts
9/13/2005 11:49 pm

It seems to me that you and I are on the same page. I would love to talk to you about the things you are going through. Happyness is the key to a good relationship and it looks like we both lack it. I think it is a good idea that we talk and if we click we can become friends. I am not asking to be your fuck buddy but I am a man so it may cross my mind. But really I just want to talk to some people who are in the same boat as I. If not hey thats cool. Let me know either way.

rm_hiya3371 45M

9/14/2005 7:21 pm

well...i like that you know what you want. cheating or not is not an easy decision to make. if you have done everything in your power to tell your partner what it is that's missing, and there is still no effort to take care of you physical, and romantic needs...what's a gal to do?
i am fit, single, intelligent, i am tattooed, i wear my hair messed up and short on top, and i have plenty of stamina!(i run marathons)
i'd be very interested in chatting with you a bit, and seeing where it goes.

rm_hiya3371 45M

9/14/2005 7:24 pm

p.s. your albums...SMOKIN'! you have curves in all the right places, and a very sexy twinkle in your eye.

agusta222 33M
2 posts
10/18/2005 3:20 pm

hey email me back and we can talk

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