This website is toying with me...  

stressedlawguy99 34M
43 posts
4/10/2005 6:13 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

This website is toying with me...

I just can't figure it out. Sometimes I can view profiles and sometimes I can't. Yesterday I could view profiles while I was in the chat room and not today I can't. I've been able to view profiles of people who comment on this blog... yet, the site seems very particular about who I can view and when. Mostly I can view profiles of people who show up in my "Most recent Comments" box, but that box doesn't ever seem to want to update. I just don't get it. Is this some advertising ploy wherein I get so frustrated with there free service that I throw money at them to remedy the problems?

I'm guessing maybe I can only view a few profiles per day maybe? If so, does anybody know how many? I also found out that I can spend "points" to see profiles but points seem rather bothersome to collect (it'd also be nice to use points to eventually pay for an upgraded membership). I recieved my first e-mail today (Thx SensuallyKatey!) and I couldn't check the sender's profile either which seems really odd to me since she can obviously see mine. Doesn't this system hinder a paying member from successfully connecting with a non-paying member? It seems unfair that I could end up paying money and still run into communication barriers with other members.


PailsDiverHonks 55F

4/10/2005 7:43 pm

It all depends on how many paying members viewed your profile on whether you will have enough hits to view other profiles. Yes, in a way it is a ploy. A.F.F would rather you “pay” to view and email.
I’m a standard member but since I am a female with a photo I get enough “hits” to view profiles. FYI, I checked out her profile (SesuallyKatey) ,don’t ask me why? Bored tonight I guess. Uhhh, here is the stats on her.

About her
Deliciously enticing woman who is wonderfully imaginative. I have a softly funnyside but am a Tigress in the bedroom. When I even think about sex I get sooooo wet. And thinking about you has me dripping! I love oral sex and so enjoy swallowing. Two of my favorite positions are on top and on my hands and knees. Sex really does start in the mind!
What she is seeking
A man who has some intelligence yet enjoys a little sense of the mysterious and can relate to a subtle seductiveness. Someone who wants more than just twice a month. Come on and live! Talk for a while and then meet and we can decide from there. Start out gently and do not be overly pushy. Thanks. (Update: It just figures I would have to add qualifications.......I have had the great fortune to live in many places where sexuality could be discussed openly and freely without this immediate expectation that the next stop would be the "bed". Guess that is why unwanted pregnancies in those places are so very low as compared to the US. There does not need to be a "committment" to do a little "romancing and respecting" in the process of developing a great sex relationship together. Remember if all you want is to get laid here and there and where ever you get hard, then you certainly can just go to a bar or pay for sex. Sex as an art form is not about being a "rabbit". I am into sex as an art form and darn good sex at that...quality. That means a little "romancing and respecting" and time taken to pleasure us both as well as coming back for more again and again over time. Thanks for checking me out. May you enjoy delicious salacious times with the "right" one.)
She’s 49 from Fairfax Iowa
A little more FYI…if you google her screen name her profile might come up. Also if you highlight her screen name in the email she sent you, copy it, then paste into a word document, you may be able to click on the URL within your word document and view her profile. I stumbled upon doing that one day by accident. Shhhhhhhh don’t tell anyone.


keithcancook 60M
17865 posts
4/10/2005 7:44 pm

Ya get what ya pay for I guess. I have no trouble viewing any profile listed.


stressedlawguy99 34M
28 posts
4/11/2005 4:40 am

That clicking the URL in your word document trick worked like a charm. Thanks a ton for the advice!


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