Email me once email me twice email me but please lets meet  

straykat4 55M
27 posts
5/19/2005 5:34 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Email me once email me twice email me but please lets meet

If you email someone and allude to a a meeting then please follow through. I am a single dad with precious personal time. I am sure others feel the same. Why do the meeting "tease"? We talk on the phone and plan a near future meet but then after the next email...pooof! gone. Left wondering, what did I do, say, is it my breath? Ok said my piece. Not really but don't want to whine anymore.


Ecaffine 52F

5/19/2005 5:51 pm

i know what you mean,its not only women doing it


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/19/2005 6:42 pm

Seems to be a lot of that going around...my thought is what is the point of being on here if you aren't truthful with what you want and who you are...


straykat4 55M
5 posts
5/20/2005 1:42 pm

Wow now I am baffled for real. It happens to the ladies too? I would have never guessed really. Amazed and confused. Here we are ready for some kind of activity and getting the hung up emails. Ah well I'll keep on ticking away and see how it goes.


pussnboots694 73M/78F

5/20/2005 5:23 pm

it happens to couples to, but it just made us realize that we are ready for this life style, and the couple that we were supposed to meet, obviously, one was dragging the other so it was probably a good thing that they didn't have the courage to meet us... they wouldn't have been able to handle us...
If you every come to town, let us know we would meet you, and I am sure have hrs and hrs of unforgetable fun....
read my blog posts if you have some time especially the post on march 27th entitled cum with me.... I saw a face similar to yours when I wrote it, perhaps our paths were ment to cross....


bimm4me 53M

5/20/2005 6:59 pm

I feel the same way. When I say hey im game i mean, IM game! All these emails and games. I get hit on alot, but 1 in 15 seems to follow thru. What a waste. If your scared or think Oh now that I can have it I dont know if I want it, sort of thing, let a person know. So many folks looking for something exciting, but not following thru. I think a lot of people are NOT who they say they are and thats why they no show or back off. In the end its FEAR OF REJECTION....


WestsideSweetie 52F

6/11/2005 1:12 pm

I'm the real deal. I'm not afraid of the meet and greet but the chemistry has to be there. I'm not looking for just a piece of ass, I want man I can be excited to be with and think I'm hot enough to be a little picky. I think rejection is a harsh word. It's more like two great puzzle pieces that may not fit. I don't take it personally although I haven't been turned down yet!


crushedbluevelve 54F

6/11/2005 6:03 pm

I have never experience someone not showing up when we had agreed to meet. Sorry for yall that have. I know I would never never stand Mr.Straykat4 up. In fact you would no longer be a stray. I think I would take you home with me....LOL


rm_fbsmile 53F

6/12/2005 8:16 am

hi, not that it happen to me but it did once . i guess some poeple like to waist our time and have no respect but then i guess it was for the best. i would'nt set you up..lol kinda a far. good luck to you you sound like a great guy take care.


rm_honeypie133 59F

6/17/2005 12:53 pm

Hi Handsome... I agree on what you said.....you are the best


rm_Wildkitten4 47F
15 posts
6/18/2005 11:50 pm

I agree, with all that you said, I have guys send me their pics and all and talk and then they disappear, I have hooked up with a few guys from here and most were a lot of fun. Wish you were near, I think we would have a hot wild time.


champagnelajaine 48F

6/19/2005 6:42 am

I can see I am not the only one wanting him now! I'm wishing straykat was in Tennessee. I was not stood up but on two different occassions we were to meet for dinner. I drove an hour to meet and when I arrived we sat and talked for an hour. No dinner, nothing. I would have much rather been stood up as opposed to spending my gas money and my time to show up for someone to do that to me - left wondering whether I was not good enough to even get my dinner bought for me - huge blow to the self esteem. Dating is tough!


mirandahere 56F

6/20/2005 12:51 am

I would never stand up a man like you. Your time for relationships is precious. As is the time with your children. I would be honored if you would meet me and take a walk hand in hand.


rm_reisaree 42F
611 posts
6/20/2005 6:59 am

hahaha...I read your blog! ~wink~ You know I wouldn't stand ya up, too bad I'm not able to ask... ~sigh~ Husbands are such a drag sometimes.....


sassicat 51F

6/21/2005 5:39 am

so true..i have been stood up..my time is just as valuable....a call-cause i give my number-would be nice...
i've never bailed on a man.

when you see a chance, dig your spurs in and ride


rm_luna2955 41F

6/22/2005 11:58 am

As you strike a conversation with someone, you can tell whether he or she is only joking or really wants to have a friendly or emotional experience.
Confusion is normally caused by either of the persons involved who, in the hope of finding a meaningful experience, refuses to see the superficiality of the other end. I believe there can be true friendship through the e-mail, but it takes two to do it.


aquaeyesbigtits 47F

6/22/2005 8:33 pm

new here...hope this is not an epidemic....but honey...if you are EVER in Atlanta...please let me know!!!!


sassyftw 53F

11/30/2005 5:05 am

Well I doubt straykat will let this post but Ive met him and yes though he is adorable in person and on the phone, after meeting him and both enjoying a good time when he asked me to go back to his place afterwards and I said no that was the last I ever heard from him...no emails, no phone calls, no explanation. Ok so obviously he expected sex on the first date...right hon? I dont play games, Im very honest and it even says in my profile that I want to get to know you a little so there is real intimacy but I dont want commitment...to me treating someone the way he did is just as bad as standing them up...its all games and its all dishonest and a waste of my time!


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