Frustration.  

strangerneeds 29M/28F
9 posts
3/15/2006 8:58 pm

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9/3/2006 1:14 am

Frustration.

Currently, my boyfriend is playing his video game. Earlier, we were sitting here together, peering through some ads on adultfinder.com here (for some reason, I always type adultfinder.com . We never received messages back from the people we invited to our network or sent messages to. I'm planning on responding to those two guys, soon...One is cute!

Currently, I'm still browsing through here, getting points and giving suggestions and comments. I'm getting ready to go take my hot bath with my sexy boyfriend soon, and take a quick shower to clean up our eventual mess. ;P

We got a one-month membership on this, to see how it'd go. It's only been like.. what.. 4 days? I would think we'd get some attention by now, and yes, I'm whining about it. It seems like there a lot of men or women only thingy, and reluctant swingers near our area.

I think I just need to learn to accept rejection. In any case, I'm hoping for a hot, steamy conversation with a couple nearby that we could engage in sexual activity with. I understand the hot guys that message me wanting to fuck us or me only... but I ignore the ones that want to do it behind their girlfriends'/wives' backs.

The thing is, it has to be the both of us, with the both of another couple for our first time as a swinger couple. Or a person (mainly female for my boyfriend's comfort and my own bicurious desires) that wants to do it with the BOTH of us at the same time.

We need to get comfortable, and slide in. I have a tendency to jump right in what I want to do, and come away feeling like I could have done something else or waited, or something. It's a big deal, I suppose, since swinging seems risky, but it turns the both of us on....and we're making some effort here.

Is anyone out there?? Anyone that's within our age comfort zone?? Anyone that's within out area?? Or is that too much criteria?


justfuntongue 49M

3/17/2006 6:41 pm

You are beautiful. Thanks for the nice comment about my threesome story...it is a true story...

JFT


strangerneeds 29M/28F

3/18/2006 6:20 am

Thank you. The fact that it's true just makes it all the hotter!


AciniWispsGleam 47M
1 post
3/22/2006 5:57 pm

Sorry to hear that you are not getting the attention you deserve. I have to say that as a single male it is probably even harder to get people to respond to you. You are certainly attractive and from what I can see have a nice body. I'd play with you and say the hell with my video games but not me. Wish you the best....If you ever get the urge for an older man to join you....let me know.


wolfgville 44M
1 post
7/23/2006 10:41 pm

I would like to help you with your interests,and it would be great if it was with the both of you. I'm not gay but not affraid of company durring sex! Contact me if interested!


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