strange_family 45M
4 posts
5/26/2006 4:28 pm

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7/1/2006 8:32 pm


Hi, I am just new to this site and pretty new to the whole lifestyle, but am willing to learn. I would love to find out what kind of things I need to put into here in order to increase my chances of find the match or matches I am looking for. I have recieved a few replies, but so far the only thing I can tell is that they are from bots or auto replies and not real people. Does this happen often? I am truly a nice guy who loves to laugh and have fun, but seem to be having trouble meeting people on here. I will welcome any and all advice good and bad, if anybody thinks of a way to improve the chances of that all important first. Thanks.

DanaeKC 43F
600 posts
5/26/2006 5:55 pm

Yes, it happens often. It's too bad that this site doesn't have an index -- a true index -- where the answers to the question of 'how to tell a bot/scam artist from a real person' aren't catalogued. have to use the search button.

If someone sounds too good to be true, they usually are. Go for real people; notice all the things about those bot/scam artist profiles that seem similar to one another (after a while, you'll notice that even the wording on the profiles is the same, no matter what age they claim, or race, or physical feature, or location), and then skip over any profile that meets those warning signs.

always report those profiles that are bots/scam artists, using the little blue button just beneath the body of emailed replies, or the customer service help section.

and spend time in the magazine and group and blog areas, where the 'real people' hang out.

good luck.

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

5/26/2006 6:04 pm

strange family,

WELCOME to AdultFriendFinder!

Just be yourself and try to visit other peoples blogs such as Mr.Bambi's and myself and you will make friends pretty fast and laugh at some good blogs such as ours.

Have a nice Memorial weekend!

Lady Bambi

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
5/27/2006 7:44 am

there's fakez on here, but thankfully many real peepz too. Stay true to you, show who you are, cruise the blogs, comment where you feel like it and it'll generate more traffic to yours too most likely

welcome to blogging, gud luck

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