are there any real people out there??????  

stilltrying69 85M
9 posts
8/28/2005 5:26 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

are there any real people out there??????


I have talked to some of you by e-mail but have only meet one of you face to face......wiht 945 friends that is a piss poor average....and several of you that did talk up went into hiding the minute I mentioned comming to your area to meet you...That sez to me you are a shill for the network... think this is my last month of membership......and I think I'll switch to men....

frogger1995 39F

8/28/2005 6:10 pm

Just because a woman decides at the last moment she is not ready to take the next setp does not mean she is a shill. We have to be a lot more careful than men. As far as friends goes I accept every invite I get, it doesn't mean I want to sleep with them all. I just assume they want to see the pics in my album...which I actually enjoy.

I know it was said in jest but you would certainly have a lot more luck with men than women considering the stats on both for this site...which should also tell you something about your response rate with women.


rm_abebb 58M
56 posts
8/28/2005 9:10 pm

now don't do anything drastic. switching to men is not going to change anything here on AdultFriendFinder. lol perhaps you might like to read my blog post, escort verses dating/relationship for entertainment purposes, of course. and definitely do not seek the advice of a female for your delemma. they will never give it to you straight and will always allude to your being the problem and not them.


34andahalf4U 49M/44F

8/28/2005 10:19 pm

Sorry, I don't agree. I'm married, we're both bi(M/F)and you would not beleive how hard it is to get someone to even hold a decent conversation, let alone try to make friends and try to hook up. That is, on the male side of it. I guess because of th ewhole 'society' thing. Girl-girl, no problem; boy-boy, forget it. Then you get tons of winks from people that don't even READ the profiles; they see a hot photo and hit send not even being close to what we want.,.....oh shit, I sound like a chick...lol Hey frogger, cool picture!


greatnsexy69 47M

8/28/2005 10:54 pm

You just gotta keep at it. Persistance is the word of the day for me.


okyme 52F

8/28/2005 11:23 pm

hummmm WOW boy I didn`t know we really weren`t suppose to meet them!! Man I`ve been doing it all wrong by showing up


hotandhorny107 58F

8/28/2005 11:24 pm

My site has been visited 18059 times. I have recieved tons of emails and invites. I have chatted with maybe 40 men since I signed up here. I have met somewhere around 15 and at this time see 3 regularly. Not that there are no offers, but I don't want the occasional horny guy looking me up just to get laid. I don't want strings, but a regular "date" is a nice thing. I can easily contact any one on my buddy list if I just want to have sex.

My point? I have the right to be selective and even if I make the first contact there is a lot of thought that goes into decide who I sleep with. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

And as far as getting advice from women as abbeb said, all advice or suggestions should be taken with a grain of salt and you take what you need and leave the rest behind


Luckycharmlady64 57F
11 posts
8/29/2005 1:26 am

I would really like to say so so much and i will I don't know what kind of woman are on here that you men are meeting but..... I feel bad for you guys and one day you may meet me and i am not about your money and looks have alot to do with it and age does to for we are looking for what we want but give me happiness together and i wouldn't trade it for all the money in the world, So in my eyes that money may take them to beautiful places and around the world and into shops that they walk out of with boxes upon boxes but when they lay down to go to sleep at nite and they are loney and that man is next to them and they are not happy they deserve what they get for God does say money is the route to all evil and if you play with it you feels its effects Yeah let me tell you how i truely view that I sit and thinkof all the things money can give them and how easy their life can be and how nice that would be to have all that and then I think of not having any love for the man giving me all of that and you know where my mind goes going to bed at night sliding under the blanket together making love and getting comfortable to finaly go to sleep together and scooting close falling asleep and when your eyes open a few hours later, my God you just want him closer and so you scoot over a whole closer and his arms have never left being around you from the time you first fell asleep and he feels you wanting to be closer still 80% a sleep and pulls you closer helping you get there and squeezes you without saying a word nor moving but his arm to help you near him showing you he wants you nearer to him also and then listening to him breath and the rynthem I messed that word up but now you listen to this heart beat and somehow find yourself flling into the same pattern that his his beating and you are one together and you softly sigh with contement and close your eyes to fall baack asleep and you may repeat it a few times more throught out the nite and maybe just once more then before the day becomes light you wake up for you both must work and it is worth the little bit of loss sleep for you want to turn around to him and watch his eyes open and look into his soul and see that you are the biggest part of his soul and he smiles and the smile is that he is doing the same and seeing the same and now you want to make love to him but first by putting your head between his legs and letting him feel your warm moist lips covering over him for you think that is the perfect most relaxing way for him to start feeling at the dawn of a new day. And you know what For me that is a blessing and the vaule of the riches you have no money could ever move you touch you excite you comfort you and make your life as complete and fullfilled for that is my fortune i am searching for .


AtomicKisss 58M

8/29/2005 1:30 am

What makes you think the men are real?


Luckycharmlady64 57F
11 posts
8/29/2005 1:44 am

hay that needs a title , but i guess it was just me.so no one may read it i just hope the ones who wrote their comments read it and I am honest and I will amitt if i am wrong and if what ever is going on is because of my doing for i would definetly saysomething or do something i am rambling can't spit it out OKIf I met a man and just was absolutely not clicking I would still try my best to make that man feel very good about himself and i would make sure that the blame was put all on me for everyone has feelings and to hurt them is just not negotiable for me I could never do that for I know how it is to feel like that and we all have felt like that at one time or another Your heart has to run deep and when saying that about my heart running deep would definetly be an understatement and to lead a man on out of anything your thinking is a wrong thing to do even if it is out of feeling sorry for him or what ever it is wrong and there is a suble wy to do that kindness from within can put a smile on a face man or woman and give them a positive hopeful attitude to take with them as they continue to move forward for as you turn and leave they have seen spoke to and felt the presence of a very real lovely woman and a good person , and people like that always bring sunshine to that even so brief moment in time


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