I guess I am naive...  

stiletto_luvr4u 50M
21 posts
11/20/2005 11:32 pm

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I guess I am naive...


Don't get me wrong, I'm just as freaky as the next person. But dammit show a little discretion folks! Many women have told me I have the ability to think like a woman (a pretty damn good skill to have when you have the hormones of a man) and I know that guy's posting pics with their penis CANNOT be helping them hookup.

What do women want? I think I can answer that question. Unfortunately, I don't have the time as there is no general answer. Each woman is a unique individual with unique needs and desires: long, slow, gentle love-making for some while other require a furious escapade. I don't believe women however when they say looks don't matter. They may not put the same priority we men do on pulchritude but they want a lean, fit body just as much as we do.

So folks, are you really helping yourself when you submit a pic of your erection? Women don't think like we men do...but then again, I guess I'm naive.

rm_lickmepretty 50F
851 posts
11/21/2005 12:06 am

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stiletto_luvr4u 50M
14 posts
11/22/2005 1:07 am

Fair enough ShayeDK. Lean isn't for everybody. I know a few ladies who like their men burly. But I still maintain that women will always appreciate a fit looking man.

Secondly, I've read a few posts and chat messages of men complaining that hooking up on AdultFriendFinder rarely happens. You are right, honesty is best in order to get specifically what one desires. But unfortunately, since men and women fundamentally think differently about sex, honesty will not likely allow men to get their desires in a 'timely manner.' To quote you:

"For instance, I am looking for friendship first. Seems simple enough, but geeeeesh, it sure seems difficult for some men to grasp that concept."

Friendship first seems simple enough for WOMEN. We men can easily have sex without the friendship. I see many men eager to show what they believe are their more private body parts. They believe that women too will find this erotic. Generally speaking, each sex believes the opposite sex thinks like they do; therein lies the unfortunate gap that causes frustration between the sexes.


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