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To all of the total strangers out in AdultFriendFinder land. I am 38 years old and have been married for 20 years. I have lead a pretty sheltered life during childhood and adulthood. I have not really tried a lot of different things sexually.
I like toys but my husband does not.
Our sex life has been going downhill for the past year, and it is nonexistent as of now.
I decided that it was time for me to check out other men and see what all that I have been missing. I found out alright.
Back in October of last year I started exercising my PC muscles. AKA Kegals. It is now part of my daily routine to complete as many as possible. When I am on AdultFriendFinder, I am always doing the exercises. What fun while I am sitting in my chair.
Let me tell you how this has changed my sex life. I use to have an orgasm about once or twice a month. Once a week if I was really lucky. It only happened with a high powered, plugged in to the wall, vibrator. I could never get off with just my fingers and a dildo. As a matter of fact, I did not even own a dildo.
When I have sex, I am usually left hanging without any sexual satisfaction. I am left to finish myself off. Pull out my vibrator from under the bed.
With exercising my pc muscles, I can have an orgasm in about 2 minutes. Then it starts all over again. I am now having at least 10 orgasms during foreplay and sex. I can cum with penetration, fingers, dildo, vibrator and licking. It has really changed my life! Sex is something that I am really enjoying these days. It has only started happening. I can't believe that I have wasted all of these years without such pleasure.
Now I can't get enough! I see someone on a regular basis. I can cum so hard every time we are together.
I can cum when I am being touched with just his fingers, if I am being kissed on my lips, my breast, or just about anywhere I can cum. It starts off slow, relaxing feeling that takes over my body. My legs start to shake. My pussy starts contracting, my breathing gets faster, I get warm all over. It is like a flood gate has been opened up. The only place that I am dry is my mouth. Everything else is dripping.
By the second orgasm I am feeling it everywhere. My body is covered by a sheen of perspiration. My clit is swollen and throbbing. My lips are covered in my juices. This one gets stronger than the first one. I get so wet right after I cum.
The third and beyond, which there are many more than 3. I think that I cum the hardest. I am feeling really good, my entire body is tense, every muscle is spasming. My legs are shaking, my ass cheeks hurt from all of the cumming. My hair is dripping wet, I have sweat running down my back. My legs are weak, I am out of breath. It is the coolest thing! I really did not know that sex could be so incredible.
I am going to pass on one of my little secrets of orgasms. If you are doing the kegal exercises, you can get up to about 300 of them a day. All of the control help make it easier to cum. During sex all I have to do is, just squeeze a few times and then it will start. I can feel it from deep inside of me. It takes over my entire body. I shake all over and I cum and cum.
The main thing with the kegals, you need to start doing them while going pee. Every time you go, stop in the middle of going. That is that best way to feel the correct muscles. Once you know where you need to flex those muscles, go to town. It is fun knowing that you are sitting in the office and you are doing sexual exercises. And it is very helpful after you have a baby.
I hope that this is helpful and gets a lot of comments. I just love those funny things that people say on the comments. I am now going straight to my blog and checking for comments. Forget the email from horny people, blogging is so much more fun.
I am looking for the big O. I just expect it to happen about 10 to 30 times a day!!!
5/11/2006 4:54 pm
Thank you for the info. I am going to pass it on to a few friends. I am sure they will love it.|
5/12/2006 12:43 pm
wow ... sounds great thanks for sharing and nice blog in general!|
5/29/2006 2:23 pm
My ex-wife had great pussy control and could squeeze my cock like nothing I've ever felt. The first time she did it I thought another hand had grabbed me. Believe me it felt so good and had me wondering how she did it. She told me of the wonders of doing Kegals. So lady's impress your man and as its done for Steelmagnolia start doing those Kegals.|