D-I-V-O-R-C-E  

steelmagnolias1 49F
39 posts
6/26/2006 8:34 pm

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9/6/2006 5:47 pm

D-I-V-O-R-C-E


I know that there are a lot of people that have already been through a divorce or maybe two. This is all new to me! I did it! I hired the attorney, gave him the required paperwork and off we go!

Got a restraining order today. I don't know when he will be served, but that is not my problem. It is a really strange feeling knowing that there will be an end to all of this drama.

It is very different now that I have given up fighting. I just sit there and agree to whatever he says. He says that I am always wrong, so it is easier to agree. I just shake my head up and down and say, "I agree, I know, you are right, I understand and my famous WHATEVER!" I know that the "whatever" drives him nuts. I really enjoy doing it without having to do anything.

He is hitting below the belt. He is dragging our youngest into the middle of everything. I tell her one thing and then he turns around and tells her something different. I tell her that she can go outside to play, he calls her into the house. I let her go to her friends house, he calls her home. She knows that she can call my mom anytime, he tells her that she can't use the phone, not even to call me. That is just wrong!!!!!!

Guess who will be in for a big surprise when he gets served?!?!?!?! Yep! my husband. He is going to be livid! I don't want to be anywhere near him when he gets the papers. the kids and I will be a long ways away from him!I will let him cool off a day or so before coming home. I wonder what we could do for a few days of vacation. Maybe a long weekend next week? I need to check into that one!!!

Keep checking back, I will keep you informed of the drama!!!!


Sweetpickles69 47F

6/26/2006 8:54 pm

It's tough, but in the long run it's worth it! Good Luck!

Peace,
Pickles

Peace,
Pickles


Djeeper1987 47M

6/26/2006 9:01 pm

Sorry to hear your going thru this. I hope to god when I find the lady of my life that we never have to go thru the "D" word. Good Luck!

Carpe Diem


SexyT12078 49F

6/26/2006 9:51 pm

Honey I went through all that shit with my kids father for a long time myself, but I finally dumped the fucking loser, and it was the best move I ever made... not only for me, but for my kids as well.
I wasn't married to the loser, but we were together 11 years. I just finally told him there will be no more penis between us, and I've stood my ground. Hang tough girl, and good luck.


Mercury76251 46M

7/11/2006 11:38 pm

Sorry to hear about how its going. I went through the D about 4 years ago and guess I'm lucky there were not kids involved and that it was pretty civil. Solunds from your discription of him that your making the correct move for you and your kids. Good luck.


rm_in_therough 63M
158 posts
7/16/2006 3:04 pm

I'm sorry also. Hope I never have to put my family through this. It sounds like you have a clear head on your shoulders. Good luck and stay the course.


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