OK...Since he wants to play hardball......  

steamyandsexybi 43F
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7/31/2006 7:14 pm

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OK...Since he wants to play hardball......

....I WIN!............

I posted this earlier but somehow never showed up so I'll repost it.
This certain member-Looking0100 has been blog stalking women (NOT men) for quite a while now. He comes off as Mr.Goodbar but as soon as any female ignores his posts and/or disagrees with anything he says, he tends to get very evil.
Since he has deleted this post in particular- among other ones- I decided to post this here in my "Home Sweet Home." (MY BLOG) Now, he cannot delete it. Either he deleted it because he's embarrassed to show it and/or he doesnt want everyone to see who he really is and what he's all about. Me? I happen to see right through it and witnessed his terrible behavior myself as reading other members blogs..and friends blogs. He has the same identical M.O each time. Starts of all nice, warm and fuzzy but as soon as he starts to even realize he's being ignored, he freaks out on that woman. He claims to "love" that female. Since when is it love just because some blogger isn't trying to hurt your feelings by replying with just a simple "thanks?" OR~ (dont ever do this w/him,lol-you'll be sorry) IGNORE him? Sucks to be him! No matter what kind of past he has or present he has...it still goes" "NO" means just that: NO!!!! Plain and simple. For some reason, he aint getting it.
I will copy/paste right below this. -His post he deleted with only the first two responses....of course AFTER he already named many more innocent bloggers for BANNING him.
....Stay tuned.............



steamyandsexybi 43F
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7/31/2006 7:17 pm

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Looking0100

7/30/2006 3:48 pm
[post a] I am sick and tired of being banned!

These are women that have currently banned me (or asked me to leave their blogs):

NOT a friend; she banned me for fear and prejudice
Champagne.....(champagnechaser)

a friend; she banned me for believing I am a fake
Erotica.....(EroticaXTC)

a friend; she didn't actually ban me, just asked me to stop visiting
Daisy.....(fieldsofdaisy)

a friend; I do not know why she banned me
Flo.....florallei

a friend; she banned me for fear
Hippie.....hippie_square

KarmoHunny a friend; she banned me by negative association
Karmo

a friend; she banned me for asking too many personal questions
Lovespell.....LoveSpell11

MaggiesWishes a friend; I do not know why she banned me
Maggie

NOT a friend; I do not know why she banned me
SexyMamma.....sexymamma662003

a friend; she banned me for a negative remark on her post
Shaye.....ShayeDK

NOT a friend; she didn't ban me; just told me to stop visiting
Sheeana.....Sheeana

a friend; I do not know why she banned me[font face=Garamond]
Tammy.....TammyDHU

I no longer CARE about any of these women or what happens to them. What happens (or doesn't happen) to them is their business and NOT mine. I still find some of them to be gorgeous or even beautiful. But, they are no longer friends of mine.
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steamyandsexybi

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7/30/2006 8:23 pm
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John,

Think about it for a while here. Really. I've read some of your comments in other members blogs~ NOT JUST THESE WOMEN IN PARTICULAR.
You cannot just ASSUME that just because a woman responds to you that she loves you! It doesnt work that way. AND...you cannot freak out on someone because they seem to disagree and/or ignore you. They probably ignore you for a reason! Dont you get it???? THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED!

This probably will end up hurting your feelings but somebodys gotta tell you. You cant pick up on the signs. Why is that?
When you constantly badger any member-whether its in their blog/email/IM...whatever....you truly are a pain in the A**!

Stop yourself and think about it. Youre always putting yourself out there "begging" for any kind of female attention. Women these days cant stand men like that.
John, the members that fear you and/or your intensions if they wont respond to you RIGHT OF WAY already experienced what comes of you if they simply ignore you! You tend to get nasty. And, dont deny it...I witnessed it a few times.

You seem to have some certain "issues" within yourself that YOU need to deal with and fix on your own. Dont think that someone will feel sorry for you in this day in age.You wont get what YOU are looking for. One of these days, if you keep this behavior up, youre gonna find yourself in a world of trouble....NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU CLAIM YOURE SORRY!!!!
and posting these members on site like this is very immature. Be a real man and take NO for an answer and move on. Its THAT simple!

By the way, please do me a favor...and DO NOT post in my blog/email me/or IM me! I'll just be another one added to your list if you do. Thanks!
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PrincessKarma

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7/30/2006 10:39 pm
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Just to let you know: I've banned you to, you whining self-centered sack of feces... Oh, you wanna know why?

Because you're full of yourself; your pathetic ego begs for regconition and when you don't get it you bitch and whine on everyone else's blog, including mine.

Do yourself and everyone else a favor: get professional help. You have sicko and stalker written ALL OVER YOU.

Even better, KILL YOURSELF and improve humanity's average IQ by about 20 points.
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rm_dosrev 38M
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7/31/2006 7:28 pm

I've not seen such melodrama since Highschool.

Seriously, what a freaking joke. Why delete posts? It doesn't ever make you look good. Even when it makes you look bad, just be a man (or woman) and take it.

"Enough of this palaver, lets get the show on the road!"
"The best thing about a day like that is that it can't get any worse. It was a bad day AND a Monday. The rest of the week has to be better." - Hotandsteamygirl


cactusass 55F

7/31/2006 7:52 pm

i doubt he'll stalk any of the blogs of gals or guys that left negative stuff. he knows he'd get the boots. he just deletes what he finds offensive so nobody else can see what some folks are bitching about. then he looks all innocent and victimized.


SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
7/31/2006 9:03 pm

I think you did a good job with what you posted on his blog, Steami. He is very manipulative. He deletes anything he views as unbecoming to him at will. That keeps women who are new to his blog from "doing their homework" on him. Hopefully, after this latest onslaught of inappropriate behavior, more female bloggers will be aware of his antics. After what happened to Hippie and LoveSpell, it crossed my mind to email the women that stopped by his blog and began interacting with him, but I didn't want to sound like some wacko vilgilante myself. Once again, all the "evidence" had been deleted, to include LoveSpell's blog and and finally Hippie had to ban him so his abusive posts no longer appeared on her blog either. Finally, I hadnt "kept up on him" and his interactions on the other ladies blogs--I was just hoping he'd learned the error of his ways for that was clearly hoping for too much. Let's just hope he keeps his promise to blog to himself for now on.


phoenix639 49F

8/1/2006 3:07 am

I dont think your comment was that bad actually.

It was the truth.

It was clear & you were not offensive.

I have my own theories & opinions on this, as im sure many have seen on a couple of different blogs but i will not post on his & nor do i wish any attention from him whatsoever.

Im suspect over his 'personality'.

One massive drama ends....another follows in the footsteps immediately. Its almost as if the other 'John' has been forgotten now.


TechSteve 49M

8/1/2006 4:26 am

It is unfortunate that banning him from a blog where he has misbehaved actually works in his favor.

Steve


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/1/2006 6:55 am

    Quoting rm_dosrev:
    I've not seen such melodrama since Highschool.

    Seriously, what a freaking joke. Why delete posts? It doesn't ever make you look good. Even when it makes you look bad, just be a man (or woman) and take it.
desrov~You havent seen so much malodrama since high school? I tell ya one thing, youre on the right site! Lol


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/1/2006 7:01 am

    Quoting cactusass:
    i doubt he'll stalk any of the blogs of gals or guys that left negative stuff. he knows he'd get the boots. he just deletes what he finds offensive so nobody else can see what some folks are bitching about. then he looks all innocent and victimized.
DBG- Ya know something...he kinda does have similarities as Bathrobe guy. Bathrobe guy never responded to any of my responses on the ad lines either....just as "J" dont respond to my posts in his blog. Slight coinsidence,maybe? Dont know for sure..yet..but just a hunch. Time will tell.
Plus, he should already know by now he'd get the boot! Common sense is lacking in his little world.


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/1/2006 7:07 am

    Quoting SensuousWoman3:
    I think you did a good job with what you posted on his blog, Steami. He is very manipulative. He deletes anything he views as unbecoming to him at will. That keeps women who are new to his blog from "doing their homework" on him. Hopefully, after this latest onslaught of inappropriate behavior, more female bloggers will be aware of his antics. After what happened to Hippie and LoveSpell, it crossed my mind to email the women that stopped by his blog and began interacting with him, but I didn't want to sound like some wacko vilgilante myself. Once again, all the "evidence" had been deleted, to include LoveSpell's blog and and finally Hippie had to ban him so his abusive posts no longer appeared on her blog either. Finally, I hadnt "kept up on him" and his interactions on the other ladies blogs--I was just hoping he'd learned the error of his ways for that was clearly hoping for too much. Let's just hope he keeps his promise to blog to himself for now on.
SW3,
Thank you. Yes, I knew he was manipulative since the first few posts I started to see of his in other blogs. A good way to try and make sure the "evidence" doesnt disappear when he's been banned from members blogs is to 'quote' his posts....like I've mentioned before.
Unfortunately, I dont think he's stopped at this point yet. He might give it a rest for a bit...but I doubt he's learning anything from this...being banned by so many for his obvious actions.


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/1/2006 7:12 am

    Quoting rm_msgdevil12:
    I really dont know what to say here but I thought I would give it a whirl. I am a former Marine and recent college graduate. I served 5yrs active duty 4 overseas and 3 at American Embassies abroad. I enjoy a multitude of activities and usually can have a good time anywhere. I am not sure what else to say so feel free to hit me up anytime, I would like to talk to you and get to know more about you and will send a few pics as soon as I can, i cant load them here for soem reason.
msqdevil12.

Feel free to "hit you up" sometime? Ok..........
I have an email for this. Its really nice of you to tell me...and the whole world about your life but it really did ya no good. sorry.
Plus, I CLEARLY state in my profile, no pics, no response....be glad ya got this much.

....omg....Where's the quick reply in the blogs when ya need it? lol


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/1/2006 7:20 am

    Quoting phoenix639:
    I dont think your comment was that bad actually.

    It was the truth.

    It was clear & you were not offensive.

    I have my own theories & opinions on this, as im sure many have seen on a couple of different blogs but i will not post on his & nor do i wish any attention from him whatsoever.

    Im suspect over his 'personality'.

    One massive drama ends....another follows in the footsteps immediately. Its almost as if the other 'John' has been forgotten now.
phoenix,
Thanks...that first particular post- I really wasnt trying to sound mean at all. Its just that every time ya turn around, he's complaining and labeling all the women who ended up banning him. A person can only take so much. These women didnt ask him or even initiate contact with him. He went ahead and practically 'pushed' himself into their blogs and started on alot of sexual questions/topics with some ladies and of course it made them uncomfortable, especially when the topic of their blog had nothing to do with sex....thats when alot of them ignored him. I dont blame them. I wouldve too!
Yes, I agree with you about ending one drama and another starts...but I HIGHLY doubt the "other John" is gone. I was...-almost- thinking the could be one of the same. NOT saying for sure yet,though....If he is, I'm positive he'll break sooner or later and forget what he's already spoken of in past conversations,etc...


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/1/2006 7:22 am

    Quoting TechSteve:
    It is unfortunate that banning him from a blog where he has misbehaved actually works in his favor.

    Steve
Steve...
I know! lol


timberwolf6972 44M

8/2/2006 8:23 am

It sounds like that dude has major issues! {=}


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/2/2006 9:26 am

timberwolf,

"Issues" is an understatement.~ seriously


sexymamma662003 31F

8/25/2006 5:42 pm

when i first came across this guy he was on lovespells blog and i always got the feeling he was a creep he stayed away from mine for a while then one day he poped up said i had nice boobs i banned him istantly

~sexy~


steamyandsexybi 43F
2784 posts
8/26/2006 11:33 am

    Quoting sexymamma662003:
    when i first came across this guy he was on lovespells blog and i always got the feeling he was a creep he stayed away from mine for a while then one day he poped up said i had nice boobs i banned him istantly
sexymamma,

Eewwww! A remark coming from him....I wouldnt take as any compliment either. He gives me the heebie jeebies all the way through...yuck! (,,,shaking myself off...lol)
This guy is totally locked up in his own self sorrow, its pitiful. Whats even more pitiful is that a few other members (not mentioning names) fall for this! They'll learn, just as we all did.
Thanks for the visit!
~hugs~
PS- I'd say ya have a nice ass, but dont wanna be banned! LMAO!!~ just kidding!


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