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9/9/2006 8:36 am

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AdultFriendFinder.com The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals Community

Yep, that is what the heading of all the pages on this site says. In continuing my adventures I add the following accounts.

Well, I am off to a roaring trickle since my last post! I have met some local people though not very many so far. I still think the season pattern has a lot to do with it at least I have seen the pattern in other forums. I would say my theory would be supported should there be more contacts in the next few months since the theory is based on the concept that during the summer people tend to use the time for other things i.e. vacations, etc. Anyway, in that this blog is a record of my adventures here on AdultFriendFinder, I want to clarify that it is that and it is not about kiss and tell. I do not do kiss and tell nor will I post names or any hints that would allow anyone I mention to be identified in any way. I believe that is also covered in the Terms of Use thingy as well. That said, the ladies of Georgia...

Well the first lady I met is a very sexy lady. She seems very kind and compassionate and gives the allure that she would be the hottest thing between the sheets that a man could experience in a lifetime. We have not had the pleasure of meeting since my timing was off when I contacted her. We have exchanged a few emails and I am sure glad that she took time out of her busy schedule to respond. I do look forward to having an opportunity to discover things with her and hopefully that will be in the near future. I have a few things I am anxious to ask her about doing.

My timing was still off when I met the next lady as well. I had the opportunity to chat with her on wahoo IM and she was just sooooo sexy. She is shipping out with hubby, bless our troops, and will not be in Georgia as the result. I am sure she was very depressed about having to leave. I even typed her an e-rose to try to cheer her up. I miss not being able to have met her however since she was packing the house and getting ready for the movers, there was little time for anything else let alone meeting someone.

The next lady seems to be searching for something and it may be a long time before she finds what she is looking for and that is if she ever finds it. I have not seen favorable results come from situations like hers so I would just hope for the best if that is what she really wants. I had a relationship where the love grew cold and it was I that wanted to continue it however there was a point that I realized my efforts were fruitless. The relationship ended. I am not sure if that is the exactly what is happening with her but it sure sounds like it. She is such a pretty woman, I would like to have been able to know her intimately, and as a friend...the perfect person I would hold as a candidate for a friend with benefits.

Then the next lady made me laugh. She answered my email and apparently made the discovery that she was on the wrong site . She said she had no idea that this was a sex site and there was no way that she could meet anyone to have sex. I guess reading actually is helpful at times. It says right up at the top of the page and on almost every page: AdultFriendFinder The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals Community site. The questions they ask should be another give away, you think.

Then I had a lady that was in hot pursuit of me! I like a woman that knows what she wants and goes after it, as I have never been fond of the playing hard to get game. Well, she utilized every feature on AdultFriendFinder and even contacted me at another site my profile is on to make sure I noticed her. I did notice her, of course, and we set a date on wahoo IM to meet. We chatted for a good ten minutes and apparently I said something stupid or so it seems. She and my ex-wife of over ten years do/did the same unique job. I will say the job since there are so many doing that respected profession on AdultFriendFinder, a nurse. What I did was mention my ex, twice, in an attempt to further understand this lady’s work routine. Silly me, I was actually interested in what she does for a living. Anyway, she accused me of only talking about my ex and disappeared...off IM, off my network friends, everywhere. That one is a little emotional I would say. To clear up any misunderstanding for my readers, I do not compare past loves...everyone is unique and different and there is no comparison. I do not mention them at all except as clarification of a topic or I am asked specifically about them. It would be rude of anyone to say well my ex used to do it this way or my ex was better than you in doing that or my ex’s body part was cooler looking than yours. Anyway, I see a difference in all of that and empathizing or trying to appreciate another by using experiences from the past.

Then there was another lady who has me quite confused in that I thought I understood the types of relationships available but now I wonder. She said she wanted to find someone who is interested in something more substantial than the friends-w-benefits scenario. Not a "serious" relationship per se, but definitely more than a late night booty-call. I thought anything more substantial than a friends-w-benefits would be either friends or, toward the sexual side, a girlfriend. I know about a booty-call and that is definitely not substantial at all. I believe I will blog my idea of friends with benefits next since I have an unusual concept than apparently some people have.

I am still looking for at least a few friends with benefits on here and it would be great if there was a broad interest in things they do or like to do sexually. I will also will not reject the sex as I am looking, either.

More to come...



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