The Clowns that respond to ads, arrogance, stupidity and are they presumptious?  

squirtingpussy38 49M/49F
104 posts
10/30/2005 5:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The Clowns that respond to ads, arrogance, stupidity and are they presumptious?

I find the number of responses I have gotten in three short days of being on this site, amazing, perhaps? Flattering, certainly some of that to be gathered, interest, well, what women on here does not generate interest, all of the ladies do, without question.

So what is my problem, anyway? Allow me to begin by saying that I know men on here must exercise some brevity, the brighter ones in order to even get their responses read, that is a should be given. However, a few gentlemen have written me essays, damn near treatises on what they would, would being the operative word here, do to me. Indeed that does show imagination and creativity and I do not have a problem with imagination and creativity, in fact, I welcome it. That said, and now illuminating the issue here, are those who write with such self-aggrandizing, egotistical, arrogance, coupled with incredulous presumption that it borders on a form a psychopathology I can’t find a name for in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSMIV)

For a few examples, “Hey squirt, I’ll come over with a few friends and we will dump a few loads and your husband can even watch.” Ughm, what is wrong with this picture I ask myself in total dismay. They will “Let” my husband watch and now may I come over but I am coming over-Thank whoever they don’t have our addresses, or they would probably show up at many of our doors with expectations of being serviced on the spot. That in a broad stroke paints the picture without a litany of examples.

Sure our ad is provocative, beckoning and enticing, we knew that when we wrote it. Many of your ads are as well, the same, hell, a good ad gets action, in advertising, and this site is about sexual advertising for, fill in your own blank.

However, I do not recall my state of mind or my husband’s state of mind when we wrote the ad, as being that of inviting arrogance, presumption, rudeness, crassness, or otherwise. One would think that a “gentleman” would be brief, concise and to the point using some half ass grammar, and engaging in good taste, offering something, rather that insisting with a sense of entitlement, and be intelligent and diplomatic enough to ascertain interest. That manner of responding might just get more men laid or what they want. I can’t help but believe that all of you have not had similar replies that you begin to read and delete almost immediately, I read them to see how fucked up some of the responders are, call me curious.

So in the final analysis, I guess you get more pussy with intelligence and politeness than with some off the wall bullshit come on that reflects what an asshole you really are, and who in their right mind kinky as even us, wants to have anything to do with assholes, especially assholes wanting to fuck you. Can you imagine how giving they are with sex, in spite of how they lay claim to being able to satisfy all your need, telling you that they are exactly what you are looking for and these guys, are going to have the wherewithal to have sex in a manner that is satisfying to me, I doubt it seriously, very seriously.

armyboy124 32M
1 post
10/31/2005 2:06 am

can i join

rm_TooLippy 55M
1 post
10/31/2005 8:04 am

Have you actually ever had any *good* experiences?? Seems to me that most of what you say is pretty negative. Personally, I wouldn't be too comfortable coming to your door with cock in hand "all randy and ready". Human beings have a need to "break the ice" by interacting on more than the "basic level" you're referring to. For the kind of sex you want a "love doll" would do equally well for me, and there wouldn't be any "pressure to perform". As for "wanting seconds", I'm not the kind of guy that's the "luv 'em 'n leave 'em" type. If I've enjoyed the experience of fucking your lights out as much as you say you like it, then I'd want to do it again... and frequently! It would definitely be "safer" for you and at least the "performance issue" wouldn't be a problem.

phangasm2003 106M

10/31/2005 9:00 am

Since I advertise as bi, I tend to get a lot of email and IMs from guys, so I know exactly what you mean. It must work some of the time, or maybe they just never learn. For the record, I do get a few unsolicited emails from couples and they're almost universally one-liners. Maybe the male is doing the writing.
Early on, I made the mistake of tailoring my emails to the profile, so an explicit profile would get an explicit email. Telling people what you think they want to hear is a bad idea, unless you're a politician, and I'm sure that politicians are lousy in bed. I just try to come across the way I would in person. Not everybody's going to like that, but it's worked well enough for me.

clevelandgent 51M

10/31/2005 5:12 pm

I can see your problem and it seems all too common here at AdultFriendFinder. I see lots of younger guys who think that they are "gods gift" just because they are horny. Well, they may have the stamina, but they sure don't have the conversation skills to use it. Talking and getting to know someone before and after is part of the experience to me. That and a healthy dose of fun and laughter. *G* Good Luck!

wally69692004 64M
12 posts
11/3/2005 5:26 am

Hey Squirty!
There are times when its important to use conversation and drinks to break the ice. This, (for me), is usually the case when a couple want to ease into the sexual congress. My personal preference is to be friendly, shake hands and get to it. I'm not marrying these people. I am there as a tool for their ,(and my), enjoyment.

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