When will i ever don't feel this way???  

spunkyhorny 38
82 posts
10/19/2005 11:21 am

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When will i ever don't feel this way???

This is my ever first blog I will be writing.
Man are not an expressive animals. But are we women? I am not for sure. When I was in school I used to think that sex is a very unusual thing to do, so only when I reach 21 then I had the first one... (Don't take this as an opporunity to ask me how I lost my V.)
Had a few spolit relatioship,( like most people here I think) tht why I am in this state of thinking. Most man I met are just having fun. After they had what they want, they will just leave or simply wait for u to contact him.

Sometime when I get too involved with what they are talking about, I actually believe that they will protect/ care for u after having sex with u. but in the end u are wrong....

Man will never want a gal like me, no one will get serious with me...
Everytime I seem to enjoy the whole session but how many of them do know that I feel sad after the whole session, WHY?
I am sad cuz I felt that I was being made used of. Or rather why am I so incapable of resisting the temptation of sex??

Once had a good fuck buddy told me that, when u met someone u like/ love, never tell him your history....
Sad to say I can't, cuz I don't know how to lie and hide things.
Only know how to hide things that are concering emotions and feelings.. ...
Till today, I tried not to meet ppl from here just for sex, I wan a friendship actually.
but I know man are more of a physically person, so it is quite difficult.
Most ppl here will ask me, why am I in AdultFriendFinder?
Simply, I want to find open minded people to be friends with.
Just want to share with people my sexually thoughts and so people here will know me better.
actually I got too many thoughts in my mind but I think it is difficult to pen it down all right now, cuz it is all jumble up......
Soon, slowly I will let it out here. so maybe by then I will know better what I want in my personal life.

mr_simply_me 45M
842 posts
10/19/2005 12:25 pm

Welcome... Nice to see your intentions are to to clear your thoughts... It may be right or it may be wrong... read through the blogs again with other peoples comments and you will understand yourselve better..

Firstly... ur at ur prime... so don't waste it... I mean not just for sex. Don't just go for sex in a relationship... it will not last... BUT going without it might not meet your needs... So judge when you should have a physical intimate contact.

You are right that MAN are physical creatures and in additions, MAN have egos...

I don't think telling or not telling your new partner is a very important thing. If he can accept fine, otherwise, walk away... don't try to fix it.

Take it easy lady... be friends with anyone...


Scottyboy2087 50M
85 posts
10/19/2005 1:24 pm

Most men are bastards but not all of us are, I know I live a long way from you but if you want a friend, as a friend please feel free to email me. Keep looking and do not despair as your soul partner is out there.

ocias 47M
11 posts
10/19/2005 8:23 pm

I don't think ur situation is unique or far from what a lot of people experience...especially at an age where so many facets of ur life are pulling u in all directions.

I use to think that turning 21 was difficult, as you're bordering between still being a child and entering adulthood. But I find, being in your mid 20's is even more stressful - what with work, r'ships, family commitments, personal finances etc etc etc.

So most of us turn to another individual (boyfriends/girlfriends) for comfort, for sense of purpose. Physical intimacy can be a wonderful distraction from reality sometimes (at 36, I still use it for distraction from stress) but it also can be quite damaging if not approached with care.

I don't claim to know you (yet), but I think you're in a transition period as you mature and questions are asked of yourself. After consulting with friends and self-analysis on my own situation, I realised that the only thing I can change is myself and my circumstances and take things one day at a time, (easier said then done, I have to admit). I have to take control of my life.

You can take charge of your life too, one step and one day at a time. And yes, having true friends do help!

rm_russell1501 44M
32 posts
10/20/2005 7:55 am

agree totally with u ...take your time and get to know more pple here or otherwise..

good luck...


p.s we can get toghether to chat, share or swap experiences too if u like..wink

malayboy26 37M

10/20/2005 8:01 am

i am very sorry on yer current situation n i think not all guys r like that as those "guys" claim wat they say r untrue n u should follow yer own heart not being tempted by them.Look at me 4 instance i got no galfriend but im happy 4 wat im doin rite now.Im maybe devilish but in my heart im a caring guy about ppl around me.Anyway the real guy should not take advantage of u n use u like a doll.by a way if u r interested in me or to get to know me,my email is AdultFriendFinder .I will be there

letsmitladies 36M

10/20/2005 8:43 am

if u are game we can mit to work someting out AdultFriendFinder hear from u soon

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
10/20/2005 12:00 pm

In the end, all that matters is knowing what you want and are you really happy. If its sex you want and you choose to do it responsibly then so be it. A true love will accept you for what you are.

Personally, I have no qualms with my wife having multiple partners so long as at that time she made love because she felt enough to want to sleep with them. I only can't accept it if she slept with guys for monetary gains or advantages.

adultfriendlee2 40M
64 posts
10/21/2005 4:26 am

Hi Spunkyhorny,

I wud like to chat u .... as chat friend...

If u don't mind,
Hope to hear from u soon

Really hope to hear from u ..... I'm not a sex ad.

adultfriendlee2 40M
64 posts
10/21/2005 11:30 pm

Hi Spunkyhorny,

I wud like to chat u online as chat pal if u don't mind...

My contact is boyiscurious of hot........ mail

Hope to hear from u soon....

I really hope to hear from u soon

rm_lauth 58

10/22/2005 7:23 am

first of all those guys that you met 0nly want 1 nite stand.
not to have a long discreet relationship or having a regular
partner. don't be disappointed life is such, u win some and
you love some.. take your time you might end up finding your
perfect partner.

StoRm6969696 47M

10/23/2005 6:11 pm

A lost soul is person not having one. You'll embark on one fine man not any sooner, later

Btw as most of them say life is short lives to it's fullest. I say crap, do you really know the meaning of live >>!

rm_fireaxe1818 41M
27 posts
10/26/2005 6:16 am

relax yourself dont stress up nobody can force u to do things that u dont like just stay happy .....

rm_quekguo 52M
2 posts
10/29/2005 10:06 pm

Hi there. Fret not, not all man are like wat u think...only after sex. The problem is that u r looking from the wrong place. With the site u r on and the photos u posted, it is natural that the kind of attention u attract will b from men who r eager to meet for SEX only. For this type of men, they view each session as a conquest and will need to move on to their next Everest...dat explains y they never call back, cos there are too many Everst waiting for their conquest to have time to do a re-climb. Try finding friends from other sources, like social gathering, libraries, churches etc etc

rm_hawkster65 47M
14 posts
11/11/2005 6:22 am

can we b a email pal? AdultFriendFinder

rm_zen269 45M
82 posts
6/30/2006 8:07 pm

Read more of other's blog, or from news papers or any media that could enlighten your thots, and get yourself occupate as well, not everyone knows what they want right from the beginning, it takes some time, so before you get what you want, try other things, many things can do wonders that you don't even know.

eroticswapfun 47F

12/14/2007 6:02 am

May I just share with you - if you r looking for erotic fun in sex with different partners, you will need a very 'open' mind, bearing in mind that adult sites are usually no strings attached. In this way, you will not get hurt my dear....There are indeed some couples who do end up together but its like 1 in a million! Men are strange and unpredictable...u never know what they think in their head. U can be his one and only love but you will definitely not be his one and only sex partner, even for the most decent guy on earth! Life is short, have fun sweetheart but have safe & clean fun!

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