Dates...what happened to them!  

spoilablkwomen 37F
116 posts
2/24/2006 7:24 am

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Dates...what happened to them!


I am though tired of meeting men who think a date is going to to applebees or TGIF and wearing jeans and t-shirt. What happened to the day where men wore suits or atleast slacks and went to places that didn't have the same menu for the past 20 yrs! I watch tv and wish for the old days of the 90's! was watching living single, and sinclair went on a 1st date and her date was in a full suit. i can wish huh...

The One you love to adore!!
ATL for REAL Meetings


JazzNatl 45M

3/10/2006 8:55 am

Things have changed, those special frills type dates are more expensive and MANY women have said they would rather split the tab on dates so they dont feel pressured to do anything after a date.

So most men are like, why put all the effort into the pomp and circumstance if she is gonna just say .. I think you are trying too
hard to impress me. Sorry...blame the magazines, the prices, those other social factors that have changed.

Women nearly make the same money as men...why don't women take men out on expensive dates?


spoilablkwomen 37F

3/10/2006 7:21 pm

becuase men don't. I guess that why i don't dig the majority of the men here and on the streets and maybe why i perfer men who have made something ofthemselves and can afford a suit and to go a nice place. also to correct you, you don't have to spend an arm and a leg to go a nice place. that just shows lack of creativity. and also YOU men give the hints and make the comments that if you spend money you better get ass..so don't put that on us!

The One you love to adore!!
ATL for REAL Meetings


spoilablkwomen 37F

3/10/2006 7:23 pm

Also you men think that the only way to go on a date is to dinner and a movies...what happened to pinics, or going to the muesum, or a jazz or r&b club ( the kind you sit and listen to music), or just taking a walk downtown, or historic area, aqurium (misspell i know)or something creative..

The One you love to adore!!
ATL for REAL Meetings


blakkrock 51M
3 posts
5/1/2006 7:18 am

i know i am late with this ...but i am so glad to hear a woman say she wants to SEE and hear music PERFORMED and not just go to a loud club with electronic bleeps and thug .
But i am biased as i am a musician....


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