spinmedown 49M
1607 posts
11/20/2005 5:36 pm

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10/24/2007 6:31 pm


I am feeling the unforgivable numbness of a conversation that goes nowhere, resolves nothing and is an endless revolving of the same statements, misunderstandings and arguments.

no communication

no understanding

no conclusion

just unforgiveably

Most people are other people... FUCKING CHARACTER LIMIT!!! ~Oscar Wilde

bardicman 50M

11/20/2005 6:08 pm

God, I had one of them just last week. Same damn thing said over and over and over and over. still nothing settled.

I feel for you man.

I am not dead yet

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
11/20/2005 6:19 pm

wow, that was effective. I hope you regain feeling soon, please.

caressmewell 53F

11/20/2005 6:20 pm

Damn, have you had a conversation with my ex-husband?

I'm sorry that you are feeling numb.

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
11/20/2005 11:31 pm

sounds like a marry-go-round. You keep going in circles...I feel for ya but its like I said you have to either give in or get out otherwise you will feel like this for along time...and it will repeat and repeat...I hope things get better.

tillerbabe 56F

11/21/2005 1:07 am

Ugh....sounds like no one was listening. Sometimes it's just good to say:
"we agree to disagree."
Hope it all gets beter for you! {=}

MaggiesWishes 60F

11/21/2005 2:43 pm

Ya know... I have been in that "vicious circle" ... it's no fun.
Maybe you need to "backspace", take a breather and let some new air in and swoosh the stale air out.
I'm here for you, Spin. Mauu'ah for good measure!

MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
11/21/2005 5:17 pm


Been There...

Done That...

Burned The Tee Shirt!

You have my sympathies, Chum. There is little that's so friggin' mentally fatiguing as getting stuck in one of those conversational Moebius Strips...

It can almost make a feller empathize with axe murderers...


Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



silkysmoothlegs3 105F

11/22/2005 10:36 am

Been there done that too

huge hugs for you babes


rm_corezon 53F
3376 posts
11/22/2005 10:15 pm

I think maybe most of us have been there and done that...sometimes people can agree to disagree, sometimes people are so far apart mentally that they just literally can't see where the other person is coming from, though...that's when the partners become exes...frankly, I must be jaded; but any relationship that I have to put that much work into before marriage doesn't appeal to me as marriage material...

spinmedown 49M
3626 posts
11/23/2005 8:54 pm

Bard The worst part about it is knowing that nothing was resolved and another call is on the way. More of the same. Thanks, bro. I know how you feel.
saintlianna Just reading that made me feel better. Thank you.
caress Thank you. It is an indicator. Isn't it?
night I know. I know. This marry-go-round just isn't merry anymore. Thanks, man.
tillerbabe Thank you. I'm listening to you. I really am.
Maggie! I feel better already. Thank you, darlin. Mauu'ah right back.
Mr.P Oh what a tangled Moebius Strip we weave and weave and weave. No forward movement. No giving of ground, just round and round. Does make one think of giving it the chop. Thanks, chum.
silky Thank you. I think Irish women have voices like angels. Hard to imagine a hopeless conversation.
corezon Welcome! Not jaded, just practical advice. Thank you. It does seem hopeless. Both of us have already kicked our lines in the sand. The space between our lines is where our relationship should be. Both of us stubbornly stand behind our lines and dare one another to cross their own line. To take a step towards entering the relationship we could have. Unfortunately, we aren't budging.

Most people are other people... FUCKING CHARACTER LIMIT!!! ~Oscar Wilde

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