How to tell if a woman  

spikerokc61 55M
50 posts
7/27/2006 12:19 pm

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How to tell if a woman

Here are some hints that might make it easier for guys to know if a woman’s profile is real or not. There maybe more ideas out there, but this is what I’ve found that usually leads me to believe it’s a real profile.

1. If she’s a gold or silver member
2. If she has friends listed
3. If you see her chatting or on IMC
4. If you see her doing a web broadcast
5. If she has answered the extra questions on her profile
6. If she views your profile
7. If she has answered the purity questions
8. If she has posted any responses to articles or advice lines
9. If she has a blog
10. If she has any albums
11. And last, but not least, if she responds to your email, lol

There maybe more……but this is what I’ve found so far.

And like people have said before, you have to be patient. Men outnumber women at least 10 to 1 and probably more like 30 or 40 to 1.

Hope this helps.

phoenix639 49F

7/27/2006 1:10 pm

Im a standard member
I dont chat on IMC
I dont cam
I dont have albums
I dont reply to all mails either.

Am i a fake then because i dont check with a tick on all your criteria.

A fake is just as likely to add questions & answers in the magazine.
They also have blogs
They will be in the chatrooms more than genuine women...check out the advertising in there. Thats why i no longer use chatrooms or IM.
They will answer almost all emails when they can.
They have a massive friends list.
They have many saucy photos
They are also silver & gold members as its profiable to be .

You cannot tell a fake by your criteria alone.

You just need to trust instincts & keep your wits about you.

One hint is most real women are cautious over giving contact details out so prefer to wait to pass them on until a good few emails have passed between you.

spikerokc61 replies on 9/16/2006 11:15 pm:
I wasn't going to respond, but I decided to.

You have at least 4 things that are on my list. And I didn't say anything about if you don't have these things your profile is fake. There are a lot of profiles that are fronts for porn sites or whatever. They have bots filling in responses and there's only so much they can do. And, I said they were "HINTS" not the end all be all of lists to find real profiles.

But.........that's just my opinion, I could be wrong........

rm_atmypeak4you 59F

9/15/2006 2:02 pm

I am going to have to disagree with you. I am a standard member - I am not interested in paying for something I can get walking in any crowded mall. It's just a bit more interesting here, beause I can look without being judged. I don't fill out all the questions because if I am interested in someone, I will personally answer those questions to them. I don't do a lot of the things you state because I am just not that hard up for expanding my population of male friends. And yes, my profile is very real - nothing fake about it or me.

spikerokc61 replies on 9/16/2006 11:23 pm:
You're going to disagree with me about what........

If you're just going to the local mall, then I guess we need to warn the local shoppers. You may not have filled out all the questions........but you filled out more than the bots do. And I didn't say your profile was fake, if you read everything in the post, your profile would pass the memorex test. I put this up because a few men were getting tired of being contacted by porn sites and scams.

Of course.........that's just my opinion, I could be wrong

wyldwyckednnasty 58F

7/26/2007 6:37 am

spiker darlin,,, I bet it does suck for the guys on this site to get all the porn bots but.... when you talk to someone, it only takes a sec to know if either is a bot so when someone does talk to you, it is less than a minute before thy realize you are a good man and if they don't get that.......will sweety then I wouldn't waste my time on them... It sucks as a woman on this site sometimes too cuz lord you get lots of mail from some of the strangest people, but, we just have to weed between it and go on,,, at least in chat you can tell the bots,,,,btw.... you are a blast to talk with so if some gal doesn't talk to ya,,, don't waste your time ,ok! She is the one missing out....Too bad we can't get the roads to shrink a lil out here..... kisses to ya darlin, see ya in chat.....I will never not pass up the chance to chat with ya........

spikerokc61 55M
56 posts
7/26/2007 9:56 am're gonna make me blush......and that's not easy to do, lol

Chilipepper1957 59F

10/14/2007 2:53 pm

Spikey....Funny, I met all your criteria, for an honest, open female
on this site. Single, an open book, and above all honest, to bad men
arent looking for that. No matter how honest I am about my appearance they still have their expectations....its a shame. I even cam, are they looking with closed eyes? You take care, your a very special man...and darlin', what a stud!! Wish you were closer!

Adios Chilipepper!!

rm_DanishGem14 45F

11/15/2007 10:06 am

Did some of you miss the fact that Spiker said HINTS??????? NOT IN CONCRETE!!!!!

rm_flossybell65 51F
11 posts
6/10/2008 8:33 am

How interesting, the subject of fakes....
The hints Spiker has mentioned are from his own experiences.I can only imagne what he has been through, as I myself have horror tales to tell about this site.
When puttin my profile together, I decided, I didnt want to pay for a status as gold or silver Again.. As a married couple we did pay, but to only collect liars, game players and idiots.As being a single standard member, I feel like a weed eater, tons of mail from men wanting me to be a tour guide, and hooker just for them, they are as you know,, very special, and I would be missing out if I didnt drop what I was doing to entertain them.I have wasted alot of precious time by chattin endlessly and the men have turned out to be a liar, criminal, or weirdo.I think its just trail and error. Talk awhile, meet, if they show up, and see where things go.Its a shame not everyone can be open and honest about things.


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