Just thinking about it makes me hot  

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
161 posts
7/1/2005 5:31 pm

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Just thinking about it makes me hot


Hello friends and lovers. My husband Ben and I have an unusual style of lovemaking that includes other men in our bedroom. Because of the way people are, we must be discreet. Beyond that I make no apologies. It works for us.

I am married, but also have a regular lover and am always interested in meeting people we might get along with. I must find you very attractive or I won't do it. We have no problem meeting men, especially as we have a huge influx of tourists in our area. We have been known to meet friends we've made on the Internet and nobody has ever been disappointed.

I'll start by telling a little bit about myself in this first entry. My name is Sarah. My husband has enjoyed watching me with outher men for several years now. During the first part of our marriage, we were traditional. I was jealous if he looked around and he was mad if I did. At one point we found ourselves separated at which time I screwed a couple of guys. Ben and I eventually got back together and true to form, he was angry that I had enjoyed sex during our time apart.

We would argue and he would keep wanting to know the details. It wasn't long before I caught on that this turned him on. In the middle of a heated discussion, he would suddenly want to make love and he would be especially hard and enthusiastic.

One night while we were going through the drill, I just said flat out, "This turns you on, doesn't it?"
he denied it at first and got even angrier, but I knew and there was no hiding it.

Finally he just admitted it and tried to analyze his feelings. We really talked things out over a period of time, until we were both comfortable and on the same track. He was embarassed when there was no reason to be. We all have our little kinks and his is not so far out that I can't accomodate him. It's my pleasure.

And oh has it been a pleasure! I have had more fun than I ever thought possible. The first time we finally did it became a continuous thing. We had gone to a bar; I started talking with guys while Ben played pool. One guy was especially interested and was bending over backwards for me, so I wound up bending over for him in a motel room later that night.

I do think the alcohol took the nervous edge off that first experience, but every emotion ran free and wild during this and later encounters. Something about detached sex or forbidden love in general is just so super intoxicating and I love it. Ben and I are addicted, but being addicted to this lifestyle isn't necessarily a bad thing. We did have to deal with a lot of emotion along the way, but it was all worth working through.

We now enjoy a sex life that few couples will ever know and we will never go back to that rigid style of living and loving that we once fought so hard for.

rm_psykodell 32M/F
47 posts
7/1/2005 9:48 pm

hrmm... i may not be a sexy guy but i aint exactly ugly either... where are yall located?


GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3042 posts
7/2/2005 12:02 am

I just love watching her cum ,dont care if it's me doing it , or another guy or a group of guys, She gets turmed on by it too, cos she knows shes gonna get some more ,when we get back home


spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/2/2005 7:10 am

We're in the Black Hills of South Dakota Hon, a town called Spearfish, near Rapid City.


agoodtime1963 65M  
2 posts
7/2/2005 11:08 am

hi sarah well i like your story and i thank its great that you and your husband are enjoying it keep haveing fun along with great sex also i will be in rapid city on 7-28 -05 if you would like to talk thanks


spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/2/2005 3:14 pm

I'm flatterd to get so much attention in such a short time. Everyone's been so nice too. I just know we're going to make some friends here. I will try my hardest to answer email but I already feel a little swamped. It's nice to feel welcome and wanted.


JUSTDOIT2004 51M

7/2/2005 3:27 pm

Very mature and obviously not easily accomplished! I have found the same things, and in some ways experienced some of the same(my ex wives and . THings did not work out the same as yours did, but you both obviously love each other and are willing to push the envelope......do u have a sister or girlfriend ....lol
I also need discretion....except behind closed doors...maybe leave the curtains open...ha
Thanks for sharing your journey!!


Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

7/2/2005 3:46 pm

Well nice to see others into the same thing..


rm_psykodell 32M/F
47 posts
7/3/2005 11:06 am

if im ever in ur area ill give u a ring spearfish


spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/3/2005 12:00 pm

GB cpl knows what I'm talking about then. It's been alright and almost expected for guys to fool around but women have been trained not to. When a woman decides to just go for it with no second guessing it is such a liberation. Men who like to watch their wives are the most intense lovers from my experience. Never a dull moment because I can always get it done. It really works well this way because couples are hard to find where everyone matches up.


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
7/7/2005 11:52 pm

Kudos to y'all for communicating so well. Now both of y'all are happy with your sexual selves.

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spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/8/2005 9:54 am

Communication and honesty is the key. It took us some 7 years to get the the point of trust that made it possible for us to come out concerning our brand of kink.


spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/9/2005 12:34 pm

Just encourage her to go out and get herself laid and that should do it. Most of us would like to still get around but don't really believe the spouse would be cool with it if it happened so we pretend we wouldn't want to.


aftnoondlite 63
12 posts
7/11/2005 9:13 am

All I can say is I love that cream pie.Especially when the cream is not mine...


Tryanything1ceXX 44M/39F

7/11/2005 7:29 pm

girl i no what your talking about stephen and I went threw years of me cheating him cheating us swinging then we got honest with each other and stopped screwing each other over now we are F U CKING great and I think i would love to get to know you and ben maybe even raymond

kisses melissa


spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/16/2005 3:07 pm

We almost found ourselves divorced at one point and then we got real and now life couldn't be better. It's amazing when people admit they have needs and desires how things can be worked through in a hurry. We are anxious to meet you.


voyeurs69in2003 68M/54F  
318 posts
7/16/2005 10:54 pm

Excellent story. My husband manages to suck my clit when I have another man cock in my pussy, and husbands cock in my hand. That drives me wild.


spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/17/2005 1:15 pm

voyeurs69in2003 you sound like our kind of folks.


rm_forreal57785 47M/47F

12/11/2005 11:04 am

It's amazing that you can be so free. More power to you!


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