It's hotter than can be imagined  

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
161 posts
7/16/2005 10:59 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

It's hotter than can be imagined

I've spent the morning sitting around and thinking. I've gone and gotten myself excited and hope Ben doesn't wear himself out today in this heat. I really want to go out tonight.

Raymond will be coming over tomorrow night just like old faithful and that's nice in itself. All in all though nothing is more exciting than meeting a stranger and making myself available to him for just sex right then and there.

It's the forbidden aspects that add spice to the whole thing and when we start doing it too much I always compell myself to pull back and think about it. We're all so programmed with the double standard and I start thinking maybe I am a s lut.

Then it all goes full circle in my mind and I realize that I don't have to accept labels. Life is for living and we don't hurt anything with this. Quite the opposite.

Having sex in a hot wife situation is much hotter than most people can possibly imagine. I think it's because the guy treats you like a s lut. I always get their best shot and I always get a fine pounding.

They're always thankful and respectful but they love to just let go and pound on it. Most swinging situations are far more uncomfortable. Couples have their little signals and their own drama.

Swinging is great as far as it goes but many people are not really equipped for it and you get met with strange attitudes. It's often more inhibited than just going out and finding a guy to play with.

When the panties come off the action gets going hard fast and strong and I get the ride of my life every time.

Now there are those guys who get too nervous but we've done enough of this that we can usually pick out a hot one. The younger guys are the most enthusiastic as a rule. I mean under thirty.

So I'm hoping tonight's the night but it will depend on if we can find one I like who makes himself available.

Rocketman143 56M
2 posts
7/16/2005 12:24 pm

I just loved reading of your fun times.This is my first ever blog experience, and first time in AdultFriendFinder. Do you have to subscribe to one of the plans to use the chat rooms?
I thought it was "free". Any advice welcomed. LOve to meet you and Ben for fun times!

itsyaboy22 32M

7/16/2005 12:40 pm

hey where are you at? that story's insane

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

7/16/2005 12:57 pm

Hi Again

We agree we never found a couple that we clicked with. It seemed to add alot of drama. Usually we could not stand one of the spouses, or they seek bisexual females, and felt we would be a compromise, to hell with that. Or we were not their cup of tea, which is fine we are not hard body hollywood types.

Besides just not out thing, it sounds "nice" but not as hot as when your lady is enjoying another guy, and I hubby gets to see it all take place. Or the few times she went on a "date" and she comes home hornier than hell with many true to life details. It is much easier to fidn a good guy who would like to "hit it" while hubby watches. We are like you, any "DOMMS BULLS, or other disrespectful types" can look else where, no wimps here. We demand respect as you both do, and so far never had face to face issues with it.

We do not do the "let her get picked up by strangers thing" We considered it as vegas is 10 hours away, but for safty and such, we like a regular safe thing liek you and your friend Raymond. Travel and travelers would run fewer risks of being "discovered" but local friends and co workers, but in the long run for now we choose a regular friend with benefits.

No a SLUT or a CHeating wife requires disloyality. You and Ben have your own system and veto power. He approves, and probably would not want to live with out you "going out on the town." If a casual friend dropped by the bar you are at, you can just blow it off as being silly, or something because your hubby is there.

Have fun and be safe. Please stay in touch, as we have only found two others into this type of life.

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/16/2005 2:48 pm

The chat rooms are free but I often get a message that my profile is not yet approved when I try to chat.

We're in the Black Hills itsyaboy22

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/17/2005 12:38 pm

Hey Philosophy. We live in such a low population area with so many tourists that the risk is small. The casinos have great security and when we find a guy from out of town and it's a go, we do it in a room in one of the hotels or motels and then go our own ways. It works and enhances our sex lives as a couple in ways we never imagined possible. Ben worships and adores me. Neither does he ever take me for granted because he sees how men like me and how many of them would like to be in his shoes. We like you guys too because you do understand our particular little kink.

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

7/18/2005 12:13 pm

You are Right Ms Hottie hubbies of "hot wives" do lavish with attention. Most of the drama is not around us. We all appreciate how much we mean to each other, and how hard it would be to replace someone.

IPman 61M
313 posts
7/20/2005 9:08 am

I am glad I have found your blog...

My lover and I are very secure in what we have... and we are both in to exploring the swinging thing... BUT... we don't want to screw ourselves up... reading your blogs help me sort out the whole thing before we jump in... which is cool... thanks

superkev2004 56M

8/10/2005 6:45 pm

It's true, there is more drama with swinging. And not all that fun for me anyway. To each their own, of course. But the hotwife scenario sure does reduce the potential for problems. In my experience, few women are enthusiastic about their man being with another woman the way so many guys get off on their woman being fucked by another man. Some will "go along" with it, or at least try to, but when it comes down to it, they are not thrilled, and that can do some damage.

In fact, I believe, based on my experiences, that a lot of the reluctance women have about being a hotwife derives from their suspicion that the guy is only letting them do it so that he can later say, "fair is fair", either premptively so he can get some strange, or as a defense if he is caught cheating.

To my mind, it's apples and oranges, and there doesn't have to be equity on this. That said, I would have loved it if my hotwife would have set up a FMF for me on my birthday or something. But I'd have been equally thrilled if she set up a MFM!

Bellefourchelove 62M

8/27/2005 11:43 am

All hot wives are intriquing, but hottie is just a cut above most mere mortals!

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