Addicted to love  

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
161 posts
7/18/2005 4:12 pm

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Addicted to love

Several years ago in another state Ben and I would frequent a certain strip club. We became regulars.

One night we met a young man (22) from a Central American country. His name was Harsem and he was just plain gorgeous with the finest hind end I've ever seen.

One night we clued him in on our little kink. His eyes glazed over and he started buying us drinks like a mad-man. The drinks were sweet but not at all necessary.

He rode with us to his apartment and we all went in and he put on some music and got everyone a drink. He just sat on the sofa staring at me with the cutest little smile.

Ben whispered to me to dance so I started dancing and took it off all but my panties. Harsem just sat there so I straddled him and stuck my tongue in his mouth.

He pulled down my panties and started licking me there. He looked over at Ben who was sitting there smiling so Harsem scooped me up and deposited me on his bed.

He took off all his clothes and got down with me. I'm sorry to admit that I'm not the really noisy type but I couldn't keep it down as Harsem gave it to me like only a very young guy can.

Forty-five minutes before he was done screwing me my legs were just hanging limp. He became our regular playmate and I had him ten to fifteen times in a month.

Unfortunatly Harsem decided he wanted me without Ben and screwed the whole thing up. If Raymond should bow out at some point I know another regular lover will come along. They always do.

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

7/18/2005 8:45 pm

THat would royally piss us both off, we make it clear on how the deal works. Figures some dud would try and screw it all up like that!

But you have the memories to replay in your mind

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/18/2005 10:25 pm

He was good while he lasted. Too many people want to possess others and that's a drag. The desire to want to own everything and control others is pure evil. People have got to learn to let go and work through their insecurities. Harsem was obviously insecure as he wanted to have me for himself and that blew a sweet thing for all of us.

476 posts
7/19/2005 8:22 am

I totally understand the young man's point of view, and honestly it may or may not have been that he wanted to possess you.

When I was 19 or so I met a woman that was a bit older than me and struck up an affair with her. She made it clear from the begining that she was unhappily married but that she knew where her bread was buttered so I should forget about any happily ever after scenerios.

She would come by my place 3 or 4 times a week and we had a mazing sex. She made no pretense about me being the only extramarital affair she was having, but I didn't care, I really loved her.

Now and then I would say something about her leaving her husband. She was quick to jerk me back to reality with a comment about taking care of her 5 kids. Sometimes I would say something like I'd manage it somehow and she would giggle and start playing with my dick. "You're managing just fine," she would reassure me.

I didn't say those things so much to convince her as to let her know how deeply I cared for her. The feeling was right the expression was wrong.

I do know that there is a lot of the possession sickness goign around but sometimes it's just that the person needs to be reassured that it's okay to share without owning. Maybe next time you hook up with a youngun' you can help show them the path to true enlightenment, totally self-indulgent selfless sharing.

Stop by the Coitus Interruptus Cafe anytime.


IPman 60M
313 posts
7/20/2005 9:04 am

Great story!

The guy is a dope

Tryanything1ceXX 44M/39F

7/20/2005 12:10 pm

Jealousy and possesiveness from others have ruined several of our relations with other couples and singles. It is an unfortunate risk with any couples I think. There are a select few that know this is for fun and don't bring the drama. We understand where you are coming from.


Bellefourchelove 62M

7/21/2005 9:45 am

You are one spectacular woman Hottie; a woman like you should be celebrated. You write a most interesting blog!

want_u2_blow_me 48M
68 posts
8/27/2005 6:57 am

Hottie, you & your man sound like a very interesting couple. I have always fantasized about sharing a wife w/ her husband, do you usually play together, or is he just always nearby?

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
9/6/2005 2:03 am

Poor Harsep, he just didn't know what to do with his luck!
Oh well, he 's young- hopefully, he 'll learn.

Bellefourchelove 62M

9/26/2005 8:18 am

You know, you and Ben gave me one of the highest highs I've experienced in all my days...and then you're gone. I understand that's how you like it, but it can be a little rough on others--

Just the same, I want to thank you and let you know I appreciate the time you blessed me with and I will never forget you as long as I live--and probably even beyond this life.

476 posts
10/13/2005 6:41 am

On the other hand now that I'm older, it bothers me when young girls want to get all clingy too. I try to explain that I'm very happy with my wife and our situation, but they either don't get it, or get pissed off about it.

When are you gonna write some more?

rm_cure57 49M
7 posts
1/2/2006 7:30 am

I THINK THAT GETTEN WITH ANOTHER MANS WHILE HE IS THERE WATCHING IS SO ------ HOTTTT! YOU ARE FOR SURE what every mature man wants.When her man is watchin me hammer on his woman it just gets it harder and faster. If whats his name falls thru or hell if you want one more good ---- then get ahold of MY CURE.Hey he can keep you I just need a piece of you.

aussieboy91 52M  
46 posts
1/3/2006 9:32 pm

nice story... bad ending for him anyway


rm_EXTRA4U1 43M
3 posts
1/4/2006 8:19 am

Sounds like he didn't know a great thing when he had it. Bet he's pissing himself now! Hope you find a good piece of ass that won't screw it up. Keep having fun.

rm_gssman 55M

2/22/2006 6:54 pm

no one can be like the best, sorry i wasn't there..

SirMounts 102M

5/8/2006 3:12 am

Yes, or I guess another way to say it is, "the more things change, the more they stay the same". *winking*
A very well written blog, spearfishhottie. *smiling*

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