About last night  

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
161 posts
7/3/2005 11:53 am

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About last night

I'm glad today is a mellow day. Last night was interesting but sort of predictable. I enjoyed myself to the fullest and am well satisfied today.

We went out to dinner at the grill and drove through the canyon anticipating the evening ahead. We kissed and felt around a little in a playful way.

We got home early and Raymond came over much earlier than expected. We didn't make it to the tub but had a few drinks together and enjoyed some laughter and light heartedness. The things that friendship is made of.

Now this is the strange part. I have concluded that someday Raymond will marry a hot wife. I know this because the last couple of times we've been with him he's wanted to go second. He likes to watch and go second.

This is so funny because he and his wife split because she kept having one nighters with acquaintances. Something tells me they could have worked it out.

I have so much email that there's no way I'll be able to answer it all. I can't even keep everyone straight. I will try to get back to as many of you as I can.

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

7/3/2005 9:40 pm

Glad you had an enjoyable time.

It is too bad your friend could not fix things, but maybe there were other issues between them.

Best wishes from another couple with simular interests!

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/4/2005 10:47 am

You're right. The main issue with them was trust and once that's gone.

Mr4Lingus 59M
144 posts
7/5/2005 7:14 am

I think it's wonderful that you and your husband have managed to work out a non-traditional relationship that can work for both of you. This is a tough thing to do, since thinking along traditional monogamous lines is so common.

I hope you continue to have good times and that things work out for you.

spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/5/2005 8:58 am

Thank you Mr4Lingus. We are lucky to have made it through all the garbage to the point we can trust each other and enjoy. The most difficult part was in Ben admitting what he liked. It has been a long but interesting journey.

keithcancook 60M
17841 posts
7/7/2005 11:57 pm

I love your blog! Keep writing!

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spearfishhottie 51M/47F
98 posts
7/8/2005 9:55 am

TY keithcancook. Maybe we can write a chapter together sometime!

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