How does bi curious become bi ?  

south_florida_bi 50M
9 posts
9/5/2005 3:20 pm

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7/7/2006 3:41 pm

How does bi curious become bi ?

I've been a bi curious man for a few yrs now. I have tried the yahoo groups but only was approached by gay men saying they can help me and no men are bi they are closet gays.

So is so untrue. I love pussy and can't get enough of it but something about cock turns me on.

People have told me that the best way I can approach this is by contacting a couple (M&F) because that is more to my liking.

THe problem is the only couples I have talked to only want a female or another couple.

Any suggestions???

(I am sorry if I somehow screwed this up. blog virgin)

marshal212 31M

9/5/2005 5:24 pm

go with the gay men and if it dosent work go to back to the pussy and bi men just arent picky we swing the way we feel at the moment and theres nothing wrong with that!!!!!

DelrayMetroMan 52M
1 post
9/13/2005 10:04 pm

Like you I love pussy but there is something about a cock that turns me on. I love to see someone (M/F) sucking my cock and imagine sucking one myself. I have had a few experiences and welcome more in my future but like you find it hard to find like minded men and women. But that is why we are here on this website, right?

So, How do you take the next step? You already have. You are a member of this site and attracting people that think like you do. Great fun is in store for you! Just remember that things happen when they are supposed to.

P.S. I'm sending you good karma so your next sex will be exactly what you want it to be and feel GREAT!

rm_newguy20040 54M

11/18/2005 9:12 pm

I feel bad for your lack of success but I have to tell you that I had no experiences until I got on here. Yes, a lot of gay guys reply but I was amazed at how many straight,married guys responded. I am sure that I am probably really lucky but the times I have hooked up have been everything I was looking for. Straight, inexperienced, good looking and built men that were just looking for the same things I was. Keep trying, maybe change your profile. post 85434

rm_tonyFL2000 54M
4 posts
12/29/2005 1:15 pm

For years I have wanted to suck a dick and be sucked by a guy. I wasnt interested in being ass fucked but I wouldnt mind doing some ass fucking to a man. Well when I found this site I was approached by a number of married men and a few gay guys. And you know what, its turned out pretty damn good. I have found a few regular married buddies that get together whenever we can for whatever we are comfortable with and we all go back to our wives. You know, the funny thing is I have managed to compartmentalize my man on man action as "boys being boys" while if I am with a woman other than my wife, its cheating. Stupid rational I know.

I know there are a lot of game players here, both men and women, who will do the IM, email and even cell number charade and still never meet. I try to weed them out quick and move on to real people. I now know why so many profiles use the word "real", they must have run into the same people I did, lol.

Hang in there and be patient, and if you get really restless come up to Brevard County and me and my buddies will show you a good time, guaranteed.


rm_Barbxxx2005 59

2/19/2006 9:15 am

I am the best of both worlds. Chuck

Love_My_Toys 53M
31 posts
4/19/2006 9:34 pm

S F Bi,
You're not alone, and one of the problems is that there are so many bi/curious guys out there, that the bi couples get slammed with replies, so they are in the position to be VERY picky.
groups. I've met 2 couples there that I play with regularly. Like everything else involving "dating", you've got to use your personality, intelligence, and charm to meet people. Simply announcing that you're bi curious will not cut it. My friends and I have mostly given up on curious guys because they are so unreliable, and almost always chicken out and pull a no show. Those that do show are usually overwhelmed by the whole scene, and decide then and there that they aren't as bi curious as they thought they were. All this equates to a lot of wasted time and disappointment on everyone's part.
By all means, don't give up, and sooner or later you'll find a couple or single guy who will take you under their wing. When that time comes, don't drop the ball. Also, stay away from married/attached guys. They're not worth the drama.

south_florida_bi 50M
1 post
7/7/2006 3:41 pm

still no luck ...grrrrrrrr

curiousGuyICT 52M

7/19/2006 7:48 pm

I can relate - there seems to be a lot of couples out there - but they are usually looking for another fem. I would be more comfortable with my first time having a woman around to share the pleasure - but I am open to trying a lot...just not finding any luck.

rm_Enzo20000 41M
1 post
10/5/2006 10:08 am

I'm a Bi guy that travels frquently to Miami for business, and there is where I look for Bi fun.Away from home (GF).If interested let me know.Maybe I can arrange my next trip so we could meet.

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