sosexy70ami 40F
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5/8/2006 3:55 pm

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Is change a good thing or a bad thing? Is it something to be feared or excited about?What if you compare the pros and cons and they come out even,should you try to find another one for one side or the other?
Some change I know is good,like if the gas prises would come back down.That is a good change.Global warming, it changes every day and does not get better,that is a bad change. But, those are changes that effect everybody. What if it was a personal change?
When there is a personal change in ones life how are you supposed to look at it?I am trying to look at it as a new adventure, not something to be feared,but to look forward to.But, if I sat here and said I was not a little afraid I would be lying. In my opinion, I do not think anybody can face a personal change without some fear.
Maybe it is the comfortableness that I am so used to. Maybe it is because I know that will be gone. The routine the security, the knowing I am safe. All of the uneasiness of not knowing what is to come and having to deal with it alone.

Spiritswilling 63M

5/8/2006 4:36 pm

This is a good thought provoking question. I'm going thru a change myself right now. Have never thought I would step out on my wife, but the thought of never having sex again at my age just does not set well with me. My wife wants nothing to do with it anymore, not even playing. Have not done anything yet and would'nt if a miracle happened and she was to say she had a change of heart, but I don't see that happening. And yes we've talked about it to no avail.

sexyariesgirl 57F

5/8/2006 5:02 pm

Change is hard...even when it's our own idea. A lot of the fear we feel is just what you stated....leaving behind the familiar, fear of the unknown, the insecurity. I've survived a lot of personal changes in the past two years and have gained some confidence and learned so much about myself! Stay strong and true to can do it. Take things one day at a time...sometimes one hour at a time. Patience, perserverance and belief in yourself will see you through.

Power To FOK

rm_qazplm1 35M

5/17/2006 3:21 am

What if you compare the pros and cons and they come out even,should you try to find another one for one side or the other?

Although the James Bond movie would say otherwise, you only live once. It is your life and you control your detiny - no one else. Because of that, you have to live your life based upon what your needs are. Why live life disappointed or miserably - you will never see these days again. Maybe what you are feeling right now is the transition of change, the uneasy feeling of going from one to the other. Just like a trip overseas - you are excited about the opportunity to see and experience new things, but get nervous about the planning, the flight and the hassles. We still go though don't we? We still go through all the negative things, and it seems like there is too much to bear, but afterwards we are glad we made the trip because it has made us a better person and has enlightened us to see things more clearly.

rm_latnluvr6900 42M

7/20/2006 2:25 pm

We are always changing. Events in our life time can change people or developing an interest can change us. No matter what...change should never be taken for the bad. There's a lesson to be learned and will make you stronger. I say take the bull by the horns and go with it!

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