I found the Simple life, werent so simple  

sooolongsuckers 41M
831 posts
9/2/2006 4:39 pm

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I found the Simple life, werent so simple

I got bored of the bar scene years ago. Everyone laughing and having fun! Stupid people! Well it's not that, it's just just I'm not really entertained by drunk people.

It always seems like people are so fake. There laughs are hard, but it's not real laughter.

I guess I just don't fit in there.

I remember in my teens and early twenties, drinking was our main source of entertainment, and I guess I was probably doing the same thing.

Boy that got old quick!

I always wanted to meet up with people who were real, but the bar sure isn't the place to find them.

There's way more to me than I could ever express in a place like that.

When I go to the bar, alot of the times I just keep to myself, listen to the music.

You don't really get to know anyone there, anyways.

I've been trying to keep things simple on this site, and just have fun.

But I still haven't found what I'm looking for.


rm_muffin162 56M
763 posts
9/2/2006 5:40 pm

Hey Liv i thought you had found the simple life,being a tramp,how can you be a proper tramp if you do not drink to excess,come on buddy never mind the bars get into the street drinking scence.


sooolongsuckers 41M

9/2/2006 7:01 pm

Actually Muffin, that's where I just came from. Sitting at starbucks, and this old guy I know from the shelter gave me a couple drinks.
I could've done a few rails too if I wanted too, but BAH!

Street drinking is low enough for me right now. I don't need to do do any street jonesing just yet.

I'll keep ya up to date on further developments, though.


rockofthewesties 54M

9/2/2006 8:33 pm

Sit on a bench, near the beach, after the summer season, and listen.
For the sound of the surf and seagulls. Strike up an occasional conversation with the local passerbys on the beach.
After it gets dark, have a few beers and watch the skies, without saying a word.

ROCKoftheWESTIES


florallei 99F

9/2/2006 9:18 pm

I was never into it and couldn't understand the attraction for it...thought I was the strange one, you know.

hugs,
flo


velvetgrrrl 39F

9/2/2006 10:52 pm

The bar scene plays out after time. The drunkened groping, forced and fake laughter brought on inebriated minds!

ts so overdone.

Plus every time I go I'm reminded that I'm getting to be one of the older people at the clubs. I never wanted to be the older person at the clubs.

I only ever went to bars/clubs for the music in the first place I like to dance (doesn't hurt that I'm usually a penniless pincher)

Anyhow I haven't found it either

But that doesn't mean I have given up the search

`Velvet
Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.


partygirl3869 48F

9/3/2006 12:59 am

Liv,
Most likely, you aren't going to find what you are looking for on this site...Twice now, I thought I did. It's hard when you think you've found it, but it turns out to be quite the opposite. I have a good time writing and responding to blogs...so that's all it is here for me now.

I'm glad you are doing better, and I hope that YOU will find what you are looking for...on here, and in life!

PG


juicy856 39M/34F

9/3/2006 12:53 pm

i always thought the same thing about drunk people. i always find myself getting a little down when i'm amoung a bunch of drunk people as i don't drink around many.

i hope you do find what your looking for


sooolongsuckers 41M

9/3/2006 3:31 pm

rock..Maybe I'll try that. The sky is so cool at night. All the stars shining brightly. That's one thing I definitely like about this.

florallie...Yeah! Where are all the other strange ones. I mean where do you find them. There must be SOME place whre all th sober people meet up to have fun that no one's told me about.

Velvetgrrl....Hey the search is half the fun!

partygrrl...I wouldn't say any of it was a waste of time though, would you?

juicy...And if I never do, at least I'll have a story. Every day is a winding road!!


partygirl3869 48F

9/3/2006 3:47 pm

    Quoting sooolongsuckers:
    rock..Maybe I'll try that. The sky is so cool at night. All the stars shining brightly. That's one thing I definitely like about this.

    florallie...Yeah! Where are all the other strange ones. I mean where do you find them. There must be SOME place whre all th sober people meet up to have fun that no one's told me about.

    Velvetgrrl....Hey the search is half the fun!

    partygrrl...I wouldn't say any of it was a waste of time though, would you?

    juicy...And if I never do, at least I'll have a story. Every day is a winding road!!
Liv...without a doubt...it was NOT a waste of time! I have walked away with two of the best friends I could have ever asked for....and if that's all I get from this site...then, I'm happy with that!

Again...glad you're doing well!


sooolongsuckers 41M

9/3/2006 4:31 pm

Party on Party girl!!!


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