The lights may have been off  

song2262 54F
1303 posts
9/4/2006 11:06 am

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9/7/2006 7:43 am

The lights may have been off

....on my blog. But there has definitely been some in-house cleaning, so to speak. Rumblings and processing in my brain. Healing. Observing. Questioning. Tentative steps in moving forward. Brutal lessons in closure.

It sucks being an artist of sorts. The sensitivity may be so exquisite when it comes to love-making and sensual experiences. But the fall is equally extreme. Disappointment, feelings of failure rendering me incapable to open up to even friends.

I'm seeing a pattern of loss and abandonment here. Yet this may be a necessary journey in seeking to establish what song2262 wants and desires and to discover the empowerment to boldly request it.

I've had to find a book I read several years back and reread it. It's profound message is very much where I needed to be. The Universe has a remarkable way of sending us what we need at the right time.
Whew...I feel better

Here is a wonderful summary. Please share your thoughts.

Don Miguel Ruiz's - The Four Agreements

Don Miguel Ruiz's book, The Four Agreements was published in 1997. For many, The Four Agreements is a life-changing book, whose ideas come from the ancient Toltec wisdom of the native people of Southern Mexico. The Toltec were 'people of knowledge' - scientists and artists who created a society to explore and conserve the traditional spiritual knowledge and practices of their ancestors. The Toltec viewed science and spirit as part of the same entity, believing that all energy - material or ethereal - is derived from and governed by the universe. Don Miguel Ruiz, born and raised in rural Mexico, was brought up to follow his family's Toltec ways by his mother, a Toltec faith healer, and grandfather, a Toltec 'nagual', a shaman. Despite this, Don Miguel decided to pursue a conventional education, which led him to qualify and practice for several years as a surgeon. Following a car crash, Don Miguel Ruiz reverted to his Toltec roots during the late 1970's, first studying and learning in depth the Toltec ways, and then healing, teaching, lecturing and writing during the 1980's and 90's, when he wrote The Four Agreements (published in 1997), The Mastery of Love (1999), The Four Agreements Companion Book (2000), and Prayers (2001). Don Miguel Ruiz survived a serious heart attack 2002, since when his teachings have been largely channelled through seminars and classes run by his followers, notably his sons Don Jose Luis and Don Miguel Ruiz Junior. Like many gurus and philosophical pioneers, Ruiz has to an extent packaged, promoted and commercialised his work, nevertheless the simplicity and elegance of his thinking remains a source of great enlightenment and aspiration. The simple ideas of The Four Agreements provide an inspirational code for life; a personal development model, and a template for personal development, behaviour, communications and relationships. Here is how Don Miguel Ruiz summarises 'The Four Agreements':

agreement 1

Be impeccable with your word - Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

agreement 2

Don’t take anything personally - Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

agreement 3

Don’t make assumptions - Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

agreement 4

Always do your best - Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

Fascinating stuff

nightis 53M

9/4/2006 8:01 pm

All four pretty much speak for themselves. Weighty material, tough to live by. Perhaps the pictured pearl can master all this!

chef953 63M

9/4/2006 9:35 pm

hey! thanks for posting this. I've had these agreements mentioned to me and referred to before... glad to read some of it and have the authors name down now.

song2262 54F
643 posts
9/7/2006 7:43 am

Nightis, I strive for mastery, but hope to be humble enough to accept my humanity.

chef, super. You can borrow my book, if you wish.

SxyGramps...oh shoot, I forgot there was a second one...blushing. I have that book too....somewhere. I need a good swift bonk on the head with that message too.
It's the MASTERY OF LOVE, for those of you wondering.

Thank you for responding gentlemen!

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