song2262 54F
1303 posts
6/26/2006 4:13 am

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Ok...first...let me preface that I've had two glasses of wine.

I really laid into many of my ex lovers tonight. I
am so tired of men saying they are so into oral. I can't think of one time when a lover has given as much as they've gotten. NOT that I'm playing a titfortat game. But please don't claim what you are really never going to do.

I guess I have a total oral fetish. And ADMITTEDLY am shy about asking for the same attention and always am nervous the conditions won't be prime for maximum enjoyment on his part. I suppose they have merely been respectful to my shrieks of "nooooo" when attempting to pry open my legs (...ok...so I need to work on some things....well...actually I don't think I'm THAT bad...if I am...I will change it straightaway! LOL )

I didn't think I would get the arguments OR insistance of challenge, even to the point of threatening to use rope or restraints to make me endure the enjoyment. LOL...well that was a bit exciting!

So...I could say I still have more to learn about communicating and asking for what I want...but do I always HAVE to ask!?

VATraveler1948 68M

6/26/2006 5:37 am

Only two glasses of wine... it's early in the day so you still have plenty of time to catch up.

Don't be shy about asking for what you want, I know that most guys say that they are really into oral sex and I suspect that is not always the truth. I want to put in a good word for the "older" guys. I can only speak from personal experience but I know that I am very willing to give a woman a very long, enjoyable oral sex session BEFORE even making a move to take my pants off. I know when I was younger my focus was on having my own orgasm as quickly as possible. That has really changed and I really do enjoy giving pleasure to my partner first. I hope you are successful in finding a partner who really wants to give you pleasure, those guys are out there, you just have to find them.

nightis 52M

6/26/2006 6:30 am

Ouch!...that has got to sting my dear! You have to tell it like is!

song2262 54F
643 posts
6/26/2006 9:27 am

Alright....let me clarify here for a moment. I was referring to 2 ex lovers and certainly not the current lover, with whom I have hardly begun to tap into the wealth of erotic pleasures I know available. So much exploring...so little time *weg*

So funny to experience a tongue lashing so to speak from even my current lover, lamenting his reputation!

MisterVATraveler1948...lol...I wrote this blog in the late evening while experiencing the uninhibiting effects of the wine, and fell asleep with laptop still atop my lap in bed....lmao. And to find I hadn't yet clicked the post button. (are you all laughing with me here as much as I am?) Hence the hour of 4:13am for final posting!Thank you for visiting my blog. And yes, I have been fortunate in having a current lover who has the most remarkable electric touch and warm eyes. Thank you for sharing with me

Now....dear Mister Nightis...how does one know where one's lovers areas of expertise or favoritism lie, if one does not let them unfold naturally. I suppose I am so sensitive of boundaries, that I do not ask at the risk of being rejected. Yes women do get rejected! Or perhaps he has not ventured to devour me because conditions have not met his quality control standards.

I find it hilarious that opening up this subject to the exlovers increased their desire to prove me wrong and have *at it* whether presented an opportunity or not. That they used my protestations...weak ones, I must add...to move in another direction. Hell...I only wanted them to show enough enthusiasm and focus to reassure me I had nothing to fear and they wanted to take on such a task LOL Perhaps they were afraid to unleash the sex goddess in me....oral feasting with me can get make me scream in ecstacy, squirt my wetness all over them, and take a huge amount of stamina and strength to hold me still until they think I am done. I suggested to them that they were not up to the task!

whew, I think I am done or at least in more trouble. giggling

VATraveler1948 68M

6/26/2006 5:26 pm

I don't think I have ever fell asleep with my laptop in my lap, it puts out waaay too much heat for that to be comfortable. I'm glad you have a lover who is attune to your needs, that can make all the difference in the world.

Now, about this Mister stuff... that makes me feel ancient

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