What does it take to make a woman feel safe?  

somar70 46M
21 posts
5/15/2005 4:52 pm

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What does it take to make a woman feel safe?

I would like to know what makes women feel comfortable enough to meet.I don't think this happens worldwide,but on my small island we live in a very close minded and in my view a very hypocritical society.A large number of the society is secretly longing for sexual freedom and openness while at the same time publicly condemning it.Women here,especially the AdultFriendFinder members talk a lot of freaky shit,but when you come down to it,that's all it is,a lot of talk.A lot of women from here view my profile and chat but they do not have the courage to take it further.
So I am asking any and all women,What can I do or say to encourage them to make that extra step?What do you as women need to make you feel secure?Please help me out here.

sugarl1ps 51F

7/17/2005 3:12 pm

Hey, for me to feel ready and safe to go and meet a guy or a gal out there I must be sure I can trust them to be discreet. This country is so small everywhere you go you can see someone you know. I don't want to put myself out there and find out that you are just looking for another sexual experience. I am a freak and love kinky shit but I don't want my life style exposed to the trini public.

rm_sexysue125 48F
1 post
8/20/2005 4:24 pm

Be yourself.Get to know the person first. Sex is always there

3wayIcontact 45M/36F
3 posts
11/11/2005 1:21 pm

Look I totally agree. I'm the male half of a m/f couple. My girlfriend is totally a hater when it comes to sexual hypocrisy. She is bisexual and when ever we are out together and she sees some woman watching her (some of you KNOW this look) she gets fucking angry...fellas gape girls all the time and she she gapes girls is a big deal. I always falling out with her because i think in T&T these days you can't be too careful. I worry that some asshole will notice how sexually expressive she is and try some shit when we are not together... So Man I can understand the caution of the Trini ladies. When I see a hottie in a taxi (I'm a redman nah so MORe stereotype)sometimes i want to make some talk but I don't bother because I can tell she will think...oh gawd I hope he's not a freak. Mind you, if we get to talk its NOT like I'm going to whip out my cock for her in the introductury conversation...
SO you just have to feel each person and each situation out so that people get into that comfort zone that allows them to shed the clothes and flip the freak switch...

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