Why do I not get any Replies? Am I that Ugly  

soldierguy112 48M
15 posts
12/1/2005 4:02 pm

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8/17/2006 4:20 pm

Why do I not get any Replies? Am I that Ugly

I have been a member for 8 months now and have sent numerous emails. I can count the number of replies on one hand. I know I am not bad looking and I have face pic on my profile. When I email someone I always send my pic so what am I doing wrong


Seereeoslee 37F

12/1/2005 4:45 pm

Sweetheart, If I ever get to your hemisphere, I'll look you up. And of course, if you'e ever Stateside, message me. You're hot.


kats60 56F

12/1/2005 4:49 pm

i dont see a thing wrong with you! your a babe, for what i can see,,chin up! kat


Singlechick25 36F

12/1/2005 5:11 pm

I think you might be focusing too much on how you look. There's just more to it for most women. Sending a pic with your email is great! What do your emails tend to say? Are they one liners? Are they dime a dozen compliments? Are they straight out requests for a hook up?

I would suggest sending more personalized emails that most women get. Read her profile. Choose one or more of the things that interest you and comment on them in your email.

Just as with most things in life, it takes some effort. Good luck!!


007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
12/1/2005 5:28 pm

I think you are attractive. If women are not attracting to you it may be due to some other aspect. But seeing how you are in the UK you are too far for me to fantasize over, because I would have to see you up close and personal.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
12/1/2005 5:30 pm

whoa!! if you're ugly, what about the real ugly men on here? you're not ugly at all and i think you're kinda hot. well yeah i wish i could hit on you but unfortunately i live half way around the world. to find a good hook up you gotta be patient and keep searching. always send out a straightforward yet decent email and respect the lady. when there is no reply, that means she's not interested. when that happens, move on and check out other profiles good luck!!


ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
12/1/2005 5:46 pm

you look fine, must be something you're saying. you're not sending dick pics are you? snatch


_CoffeeNoCream_ 53F

12/2/2005 8:39 am

you are a cute

*smiles*


rm_shortgirl72 44F
1 post
12/6/2005 6:29 pm

You look good in your pic so I don't think that's necessarily it. It might just be the people you've contacted and what they got going on in their world.


horneysexyslut4u 54F

3/7/2006 5:11 pm

Hi, Dont listen to any of the above comments, especially the one who spoke for herself and not the majority of females when she said "there is more to it for us women " said us women want more than face pic, its just twaddle, I will tell you that you are a very attractive man ( HONESTLY ) There is nothing wrong with how you have put yourself across, think you havent had as many replies as you would have liked is because you are looking for a decent woman and not just a slag like the vast majority on here, and it is obvious that there are only a few of us around,


tarmacman2000 52M/50F
4 posts
4/3/2006 5:47 am

Hi soldier
Maybe you should broaden your horizons, it mite be a good idea to change your profile to include couples, my mrs thinks you look well nice. have fun, bye


shiftworker4ever 48M

4/28/2008 7:03 am

just keep trying


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