Just wondering  

soldiergirl1602 55F
3 posts
11/24/2005 9:07 pm

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Just wondering

Why is it that we are asked to set guidelines as to who we are interested in finding if noone pays attention to them? We post our preferences and expect a good result. Instead we are flooded with interested men who are far from what we are looking for. Do they really think we are so desperate as to lower our standards and fuck anything that swings? Sorry to burst your over inflated ego guys, but unless to match, you won't get a response. No, I do not play with fire. If you are married or otherwise still attached, sorry--move on. If you smoke at all--move on. If you aren't a white boy--I'm not interested. If you are the same age as my kids or old enough to be my father-- you guessed it. If you are not within my own age group--News Flash...NO, I'M NOT INTERESTED. If you are the type who puts ANY in all your preferences, it's obvious you are just trying to get laid by anything. A cow would probably look good to you. If I were that desperate or even the slight bit interested, I wouldn't put a preference would I? Get over it. I'm looking for a man I can enjoy being with. There are plenty of gold diggers out there that will date grandpa. Plenty of school teachers interested in teaching the little boys about being an adult. There are a lot of slutty chicks here willing to show you everything. Go find someone like that. Yes I get horney like everyone else, but my standards are worth it.


11/24/2005 10:01 pm


I forget what the male to female ratios really are here but they are not what you'd call balanced by any measure. 5m to 1f is what I think I remember but don't quote me on that. That's one of the reasons for what you are experiencing but it doesn't tell the whole story.

Have you tried the automated response or private view functions of your profile yet? That might help some.

There is a steady flood of messages much like your own here but also an even larger flood of new male members who seem to join and quickly jump the gun by making moves before they've really thought things through or paused to really read profiles carefully and such. So it's tough for reminders like these to really have a large overall effect.

All I can say is to continue to hone and polish your profile so that it even more clearly states what you are looking for while also remaining vigilant about not seeming to be complaining about things too much or you might risk scaring off those who you'd really be interested in as well.

And check out blogs like this Sinderlicious to get other good ideas about using this place. It's very possible to have some decent success when armed with the right approach and attitude.

Good luck!



sleeplessknight1 68M

11/25/2005 3:05 am

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Hi soldier girl.
Yep I know... We spend time dreating a specific profile, but only a few will take notice of what is said......
this post should clear up confusion..lol...
I hope people will read it and your future posts.... tc


Hope you have fun in the land of Blog.
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so have a great one, when it arrives....

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- See the link here bloggers of this friendly site, its been around since
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Theres lots of great stuff on here.....

Take care.

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rm_billyraya 52M
29 posts
11/25/2005 11:25 am

You get 'em soldiergirl. I am new to the El Paso area and I tend to send 2-3 emails a week. I always look at the profile before I send a message. Usually more than once to make sure that I did not miss something that would make the person unappealing to me. I have been fairly lucky in my resposes because I relate my messages to their profiles. I tell them what we have in common and explain further what our profiles does not give us the opportunity to explain. I have actually started a couple of emails to you but I am in the Army also and that has stopped me from sending them.

Hope people see your blog and take heed, but I really doubt it. From what the ladies that I have met through this website tell me they get tons of emails asking for one thing.

Good luck with your search.

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