Why can't women just be FOR eachother???  

softnlush 53F
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8/2/2005 8:09 pm

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Why can't women just be FOR eachother???


I was having a chat with my best friend before the car crash we witnessed about how women are generally jealous of eachother..and I admitted in my younger days (teenage years I am talking)I was that way,but as I grew older and wiser I discovered something that will forever be gospel,there will always always always be someone else who is younger,sexier,prettier,more successful than I am as I will be younger,sexier,prettier,more successful than someone else..if that is how women really perceive eachother and decide how they treat other women they come across,and unfortunatly I believe that is why when women say they do not have many female friends,and that is just too sad for words. Well I believe women who are less than secure in themselves cannot deal with hard facts of life..I grew to be secure enough in myself to not sweat shit I cannot change..I embrace my womanhood..I embrace my girlfriends of all ages,shapes,sizes and backgrounds...I will never again in my life avoid the pretty friend because she may get a little more attention than me..I,infact,will always look to her because hey,someone will see me for the wonderful woman I am and it never hurts to be friends with a hottie *giggles*..I have met wonderful men through my friends with above average looks..and friends of mine have had a blast with me if I so happen to be that woman (a rarity since I believe all women have their own natural beauty and I do not think I am better looking or uglier than most)..I think it is fun when the men vie for all the lovely women,but if there is less attention on me..oh well,that is how life is girls..deal with it ..LOL..Just a vent I needed to air out!!!

softnlush 53F

8/3/2005 1:48 am

Well Spice,if my man is that easily stole,she can have HIM is my opinion on that,I have never had a friend of mine chase or attempt to chase any man I was with. I do not agree that men are better listeners as a rule,usually the men that seem to be really listening (if they are straight we are talking here),know the way to some women's hearts (panties that means) is through her ears (trust me I have had men basically say to me,the time they wasted being my "friend" and I would not even blow them?) I do agree most men would not steal or attempt to steal another man..unless he is on the down low and my man for some reason is too (now wouldn't that blow elephant balls?)..I do enjoy my male friends on a different level from my female..but I am blessed the female friends I have,I trust them all with my life,my secrets,my house,my money,and my man. That is just my experience I am speaking about.


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