Opinions and Judgement ..whats the difference?  

softnlush 53F
878 posts
8/18/2005 10:47 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Opinions and Judgement ..whats the difference?


A huge one..a repeat of a response to someone on our forum..example of an opinion:

Well,If it were me,I would not want to do that,but you are not me

judgement:

I cannot believe YOU would do THAT,you are such a terrible person and whoever you are doing that with is worse!!!

There are alot of judgements on TASA in regards to married members, I read most of them as truly being unwelcomed in most cases..tolerated by many but for me..I have NO issues with it,not my cup of tea,but I have been cheated on and been a partner in crime to a cheater..I have no judgement on it..I have opinions on it based on my experiences, but I see way too many personal attacks on fellow married members. Unless you have NO skeletons at all in your closet (including deviant sexual tastes) then you cannot say one word to anyone of our group..I think perhaps if marrieds are not welcomed,it should have been posted in the guidelines of joining..it is not listed as welcomed but it is not listed as unwelcomed either,in fact,affairs can be under the "other" category if you want to get technical..I believe judgements on a sex site are just ridiculous(was that being judgemental or opinionated *sighs*)..if you do not do marrieds..then fine,great even..if you do..then fine,it may not be ideal but hey it is your choice..but do not make someone feel like shit simply because you frown on something..it is not your place to do so,and if you feel it is,then maybe you need to rethink being on a sex and swingers site,this is just my opinion not a judgement *soft smiles*.

rm_bassman1941 65M

8/18/2005 1:10 pm

Thank you for your comments. I am one of those marrieds and not necessarily here because I am, as they say down south, a "dog".


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