My Friends Pain is My Pain.  

softnlush 53F
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4/7/2006 5:40 pm

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7/9/2006 5:06 pm

My Friends Pain is My Pain.


I have a few friends that are hurting right now..one is my closest,nearest and dearest,a sister to me..she is at the end of her rope and I let her cry,and scream and vent and finally she just crawled into my bed for awhile and just lay there for a few,crying and resting her eyes..fate can be cruel..timing everything..one thing after another with no let up it seems..she is hiding from herself..but I think she needs a time out..

Another is going through a rough time..an ending and I believe from what I know,they are also hiding but in a different way..I hope I can get through to them,let them know I am here to chat with,vent to..let it out..don't run away..the water is fine,I will hold your hand if you let me...don't disappear,a friend is near.

I remember being where these 2 were..feeling that feeling of wanting to hide..when I left canada I went to my brothers..and literally would not see anyone other than family..I did not want to talk,I did not want to leave his apartment..I wanted to hide from it all,run away from home(home being my own self)..with time and patience and unwavoring friendships and love of family..I made it through.

When a friend hurts..I feel it..maybe not as intensely as they are feeling it,but it is there,that aching in my chest,my stomach in knots..worrying as they are,sad for them..and at the same time when they are happy I feel that as well..I am very intune when I care about someone..and I try to make the effort to let them know I am just an IM,a phone call away..I am here..let me help.

I hope they find their way..I hope they reach out for my hand that I am extending..it will be there for as long as they need it and then some

~~~snl~~~

AltumHunksUnite 53M

4/8/2006 3:59 am

You're a good person, SNL. But then, that's something I knew before reading this post.

Let me drive. I like the view


softnlush replies on 4/8/2006 5:18 am:
wow coming from you,this means alot..thank you so much

~~~snl~~~

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