I give UP!!  

softnlush 53F
878 posts
3/20/2006 6:47 am

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10/2/2006 3:28 pm

I give UP!!


I changed my profile..I just give up...try to be blunt and too the point in an ad,I get insults for it being too wordy..1 liners asking for sex off the bat(which means they did not read my ad)and immature asswipes that have NO concept of how to approach,address or write a woman..I am sorry if my ad made you feel inadequate,or hurt your brain...the fact is..the ad was wordy for a reason..to weed out the losers ..THERE I said it!!..so what do I get? except for a handful of men that actually proved to have read my entire profile (and for that,were given access to me for chatting)..most just do not give a crap about what I had to say,or what my desires were,or the fact I just want someone I can call a friend..do friends just call ya and say ..wanna fuck? Even FWB's do not do that..jeez people!!

I found only the men from my group TASA have class,the few men I got a decent email from..class acts..but for the most part..losers..pathetic little men who just cannot understand,that a real woman wants to be treated a certain way,spoke to in a certain way,approached in a certain way.."wanna fuck?".."suck my cock tonite".."lets meet and I will eat you"..oh my..can I get your name first please? Wow..just ICK!!! I think from now on,I am just gonna post on the board,write my blogs,chat with my friends,be thankful that the men of TASA are true gentlemen,be thankful that I found a decent man who,although can be vocally umm,well,open? at times (always in a good way),he basically can be because we have established a comfort zone..maybe I will see some of the gentlemen that I recently emailed replies to at a meet and greet and they will see,I am just a woman looking for some affection,not to be a notchpost on some proverbial belt..sheesh


lifes2short069 48M
138 posts
3/20/2006 7:04 am

Hi there, guess you had another round of stupid emails.. sorry to hear the stupid men of our society make it so difficult for you.. I cant believe they don't read your profile or any of the other hot girls on here to see what you want or looking for.

Well here is a HUG for you to help brighten your day

hope you are feeling well and a little less colored.

l8r babe always L2S


softnlush 53F

3/20/2006 7:10 am

    Quoting lifes2short069:
    Hi there, guess you had another round of stupid emails.. sorry to hear the stupid men of our society make it so difficult for you.. I cant believe they don't read your profile or any of the other hot girls on here to see what you want or looking for.

    Well here is a HUG for you to help brighten your day

    hope you are feeling well and a little less colored.

    l8r babe always L2S
another round is right *sighs* out of 25 emails I got in the last 2 days,23 of them well...just make me shake my head in bewilderment and it has been going on for the last 3 weeks 1 or 2 good ones out of 100's of bad ones *cries*,you are such a nice guy..really,there should be more of you in Tampa and surrounding areas..wait,how about the whole world Ha ha *hugs back at ya* and yea my colors are beginning to fade


digdug41 49M

3/20/2006 7:50 am

yeah I hear a lot've the females here say the same thing iuts sad fellas aint got no and just say the first thing that comes to there feeble little minds, me I'd just rather get to know the female I approach and not just to fuck coz looks are decieving and ya might just get more than you bargain for when you have that mindset so softnlush dont pay them any mind you know who the real fellas are well at least I hope you can tell cyaroun

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


rm_gorilla062 49M
232 posts
3/20/2006 9:10 am

Chin up... we are not all worthless pigs.
Most men think with the wrong head and cannot enjoy mental stimulation in anyway.... I will admit I have been that way at times.
Go for it yourself and stick to what you want..... it is your time to enjoy and you know what you want.


runzwithknives 59F

3/20/2006 9:27 am

..."wanna fuck?".."suck my cock tonite".."lets meet and I will eat you"..oh my..can I get your name first please? Wow..just ICK!!! I think from now on,I am just gonna post on the board,write my blogs,chat with my friends...most just do not give a crap about what I had to say,or what my desires were,or the fact I just want someone I can call a friend.

All the time here too, soft. Can't blame anyone for trying I guess but could ya at least read my profile?? Huh, huh, pretty please...
And it's now why my autoreply is set and I've had enough...not looking anymore...rather just blog my little heart out when I need to.

Hugs,
Rosa


AltumHunksUnite 53M

3/20/2006 2:41 pm

Yup, ain't it just great how some guys make it tougher for the rest of us?

Sorry you had to go through this too, my friend. As Jerry Maguire once said, "There is a thing called manners." Clearly not taught in school (or at home) anymore.

Let me drive. I like the view


rm_JohnMacLaine 50M
585 posts
3/20/2006 6:23 pm

~~snl~~

*hugs* to you sweetie,

I feel bad that you can't get an honest reply from an honest guy, with an honest agenda of actually geting to know you first. guess that is too much to ask.

anytime you wana talk sweetie, let me know, I am here...

Hope you are feeling better....

John

"I can retain neither respect or affection for a government which has been moving from wrong to wrong in order to defend its own immorality" Mahatma Ghandi


rm_MisterFrumpy 46M
428 posts
3/20/2006 7:52 pm

actually those guys are kind of making it easier for some of us (well not ME) but someone who can actually write something coherant to a woman.

i've said it before and here it is again

guys iz dum


cutty347 37M

3/22/2006 4:01 pm

no need to give up. not all of us are on here for that so keep ur head up boo. if u ever want to talk about anything u can holla at me.shmokin216on yahoo is where u can find me o.k.


johnnymello 40M
1 post
3/24/2006 9:27 pm

To me there is no difference between men and women as far as deserving respect.
I like sex too, but I don't want to be totally ignorant of the person I am trying to get intimate with.
That's how you find out what turns them on and off.
Some guys only think with "little richard".
He's not too bright, after all, he keeps hitting his head...lol.
I can take care of my urges by myself, but the closeness that sex brings is more than an urge to release physically.
It is alot better when shared. Like all good things in life.


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