Food for thought  

softnlush 53F
878 posts
12/23/2005 6:31 am

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Food for thought

As everyone knows I am having a FWB relationship with this sexy man who I met here on AdultFriendFinder. We have enjoyed eachothers company several times and I knew when I met him I met my sexual kindred spirit..I never really had to tell him how to fuck me,he just knew how..perfect,really.

Unfortunatly due to his job we do not get to see eachother as often as we want,but when we do..OMG is all I have to say.*giggles and blushes*

Today he called,he is heading out to see his family for the holidays and will see me on his way back,and then the conversation (as always) turned sexual,talking about the last time we were together and how fuckin hot it was.

I guess he started testing me and said,what about the next time I come over and ask you to leave your door open and instead of just me there are 2 of us..honestly my first reaction was YEA!! The second was he is a total freak I am gonna love this..and the 3rd I thought about it as he was talking and said,why not?? I liked it when I did it before and I want to experiment with why not??

Then he said,what if instead of a guy I brought a woman? Again first thought was YEA (since that is really the only thing I have never done)..the second was he is a total freak I am gonna love this and the 3rd being I said,why no? Because although the idea of having a woman go down on me sounds extremely hot,I am not sure I would want to do that to her and if I had to,would I be any good at it..honestly I never once had a desire to even attempt to go down on a I think the no was my performance anxiety kicking in..what if I am not good at it..wouldn't that suck for her?

So now I sit,after having this totally hot chat with my FWB,knowing he has ideas that are exactly like mine and somehow knowing that someday..not sure when..but one of these scenarios are going to happen..a part of me feels extremely horny thinking about it. Another part is concerned,not about he and is what it is..but if I am really able to pull it off again,I did it at 19..I did it again in my I am early 40' I too old to have this type of experience actually happen again? Without sounding like the most conceited person in the world..I do not feel old,I sure as shit do not look my age,and I try very hard not to act it LOL..

He is such an aggressive make it happen kind of guy,he knows exactly everything it takes to get me off and I know how to do him so good that he comes back for more..I am the reason for these fantasies he has,I think in me he also realizes he found a sexual kindred.

So honestly if any of these 2 scenarios pop up..I am going for it..why not? You only live once and we both said it would be a 1 time only experience he and I will share,so it may be something really hot that I will add to my memoirs in my old age.

I got some thinkin to do..I just hope I can get through work without having to get myself off in the ladies room..I hate when I do that LOL *giggles*

freaksinheat 39M/39F
12 posts
12/23/2005 9:04 am

You know your not too old for this. Everything I have heard from your FWB here and before is he is understanding of you and though a aggressive take charge kind of guy, I don't think he is the kind to put anything on you that you really don't want. Definitely do scenario 1. You know you will like it as long as the other guy is right. If you are willing to see him with another girl, do scenario 2 also. If you are not comfortable going down on her, I think he will sense it and not even try. Get your freak on beautiful.

ecstaticoscar 39M

12/23/2005 9:58 am

If your first thought was YEA to both scenarios.. sounds like you know you would enjoy it and I say go for it. If you're up for it and if you enjoy yourself, the others will have a good time also.

Wish I had that decoder ring (other thread). I have no idea what FWB means, although I think I get the gist of it... But if I had to think of what it stands for, Fat White Bastard is the only thing that pops to mind (I am clueless).

Tone_33756 55M

12/23/2005 10:22 am

Nothing wrong with raising the sexual bar!


I see no problems whatsoever here...

rm_MisterFrumpy 46M
428 posts
12/23/2005 11:19 am

its better to regret something you did than something you didnt do?

eroticneurotic 46M

12/23/2005 12:29 pm

Go for it girl, if you're not comfortable going down on her, then don't, I'm sure he won't mind taking care of that, LOL. She can go down on you, while he's down on her and if you work it right, you can go down on him at the same time. It'll be like a game of oral Twister, LOL. Just because you don't want to lick her pussy doensn't mean you shouldn't let her lick yours. With three of you there, I'm sure all will be satisfied. Besides, if she's like some of us men, and just loves to lick pussy, she'll be happy enough with that. Like I always say, it's better to give than receive, when it comes to personal pleasure. Let her give, while you receive. You can give to him, lol, for havinmg her give to you........EN

heavensent1123 52F

12/23/2005 6:19 pm

You never know until you try it soft. If you don't like it just say so. As for the mmf thing, I'm in the same boat, haven't done that but once when I was 19. Would be lying if I said I wouldn't like to try it again at some point. As for the ffm thing, again tried that before, really wasn't into it but wasn't really attracted to her either. You never know what might happen if I had been. Planning on finding out soon enough though

luvsxoxo 43F

12/23/2005 9:53 pm

I am with the majority here....

Girl You are so not to old to have fun!

With the scenario #2 You don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with...Hell I don't know of any man that doesn't absolutely love the idea of two women focusing just on him!

Good luck with what ever you choose! Have some fun for me....


eroticneurotic 46M

12/24/2005 10:39 am



softnlush 53F

12/24/2005 1:38 pm

Merry Xmas to all of you..and a very happy new year

JNines 68M  
143 posts
12/25/2005 4:44 pm

Soft: Go with your instincts. They very rarely fail you. I think you should do both the MMF and FFM and simply set up reasonable expectations with your FWB and the other partners who show up. The worst that happens, is that you get carried away in the heat of the moment and evrybody has more fun, including you.
Good luck,

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