softnlush 53F
878 posts
9/25/2005 5:21 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I have a comment to make on feelings,is it ok to have feelings for many people? No,I do not have deep feelings or sexual feelings for many people. But I am finding that there are people who just fall and fall constantly and I want to know if there is something wrong with me that I feel that is insincere?

I have been told that I am closed minded,or less open than other people,but I feel that because I choose so carefully is why I have to be this way. I am of course attracted to more than 1 person,but I only act on it with the 1 person.. I do not want feelings hurt,I do not want people to read into something that is not there..I do not want to get hurt.,yet I am extremely open sexually..almost like a crazed nymphomaniac when allowed to be unleashed LOL.

The reason I am so sexual..the reason I can be so sexually intense with the person I choose is because I believe in being the sexual woman I am with someone who deserves it..it really is that simple,anyone can want someone..but there has to be that heat between 2 people,that fire,that combustion,when you see them and you have to know them,have to have them..then why turn around and say,oooh but I want to know them,have to have them? ooo and him and her and oh yea that one too,him..her..them..that one..I guess that is why swinging is not for me...I could never just talk to 10-15 guys and talk about fucking em or whatever,I never talk sex with a man in first person unless I want to fuck that particular man. I do not flirt with multitudes of men because well I think(and this is just my feelings,how I view things for me)..it just leads people on..not my style and I hate when its done to me..I hate finding out when I dig someone and he is chatting with so many other women he gets confused..total turn off and I rarely if ever give him a second glance..and never again will I give out my number if he is not gonna call me..so effin stupid,makes me feel men like that have something to hide..if I give out my digits (which I RARELY if ever do) then friggin call me..or get lost..real simple,but don't be just collecting numbers..hate that shit..I had a real bad dream last night and woke up pissed off..the reason for this blog..I hate liars.I hate players and I hate when people think they have to act like something they are not and are not true to themselves..takes a deep breath..counts to 20..heads to the shower..time to buy me a car..I will use this anger in a positive light

AltumHunksUnite 53M

9/26/2005 6:05 am

The irony is that those who call you "closed-minded" are themselves closed to the idea that lots of platonic friendships can be made here, and just because this is a sex site doesn't mean that everyone is having sex with each other.

Let me drive. I like the view

Tone_33756 55M

9/26/2005 8:08 am

I agree with Dr. Cleavis!

rm_MisterFrumpy 46M
428 posts
9/26/2005 5:06 pm

yeah some of us arent having sex with anyone here! lol

theres nothing wrong with being 'picky' or with only one person at a time..could you imagine having 3 play friends and getting dumped by all of them at once? my head would explode

heavensent1123 52F

9/27/2005 10:32 am

Hey snl, I couldn't agree with you more for the most part. However, in my defense on the flirting thing, I don't actually do it in order to try to pick up guys, it's like breathing to me, its just something I've always done, call it that old world Southern mentality (I was born and at least partially raised in the South). I realize it gives off mixed signals which believe it or not is not my intention, so I've been trying to cut it back some but not having much luck. I don't however collect random guys numbers, I'm not a player in other words.

softnlush 53F

9/28/2005 4:26 am

Heaven this post is about someone else ...but I am likeing that people are replying and I am liking that it makes people think LOL..I have never been much of a flirt because when I did do it..people got hurt..and in the end it was usually me

SirMounts 102M

10/31/2005 11:46 pm

*takes out Volume 17 of little black book* What's that number again? *wink*

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