Sex on the first date  

so_much_trouble 38F
86 posts
8/18/2005 10:59 am

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Sex on the first date

There are two kinds of men I am looking for, Mr. Right, and Mr. Right Now.
Mr. Always Right has been kicked to the curb along with Mr. Curves to the Right.
In my search for enlightenment, both sexually and emotionally, I have met all kinds of men, from lawyers to tattoo artists,and the one thing I have found to be true from everyone is that they will never turn down sex. Even men who say that they never have sex the first time they meet someone change their ways after a few well placed tongue swirrels. After several successful attempts, I have come to the conclusion that all men are full of shit (no big surprise there). Do they tell us about their no sex policy because they think it is what we want to hear?
If things are going well, why wait to have sex? If I want to, and you want to, and we are both consenting adults, why not? Why does there have to be some kind of time line we must follow for it to be appropriate? And, isn't it better to know exactly what you are getting into, before weeks and months are wasted on a great guy, but lousy lover?

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
8/18/2005 11:45 am

I agree...if only society saw things that would make life a lot more pleasant...

redmustang91 57M  
8657 posts
8/18/2005 12:14 pm

Its all biology. Males are DNA programmed to be ready to go in about seven seconds. Those who took longer did not win the evolutionary lottery. So criticizing men for being male is simply spitting into the wind. If it makes you feel good do it, but watch out for the spit! If you want more diddling around before you diddle try women, they take a lot more wooing!

scooterdog111 48M
2 posts
8/18/2005 1:05 pm

First of all Most men are full of shit when it comes down to telling a woman what she wants to hear. I've done it, hell...we all have done it and some women I've met have done it at one time or another. A lot of it has to do with both people and the true atmoshpere we set ourselves up in. If I was wanting to meet a girl and just have sex day I would go to a club or bar or similar setting and look for her there. If I was really truly looking for a relationship other than just a sexual one with the ocassional friendship and hanging out, I would do things completely different. Granted we all get lonely for companionship and sex. There are no rules as to when or what is right situation. If both people want to have sex, be prepared for the possibile consequences that may come along with it and the feelings that go with it. You are right "Why Wait"? What would be the point? If it was osmeone that you knew there was no absolute future with you would probably have sex right away. However, If it was someone that you thought there could be a future with then just wait on it. It will happen when its supposed to. It's real hard to find someone that is a great person and a great Lover all in one package. However, my question would be.....Is this something you can really find in just ONE PERSON and be "COMPLETELY SATISFIED" with JUST THAT ONE PERSON? Hmmmmmm..... Anyone on this site that answers "Yes" to this question is probably "full of shit" and not being honest with themselves or they wouldn't be here. Great "Blog"!!

drnick20054 28M

8/19/2005 9:31 am

sex is one of the most important things for the man. and i assume the woman 2. so y not fuck on the first date if u both want it

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