16 hours on AFF, 48 responses so far  

so_much_trouble 38F
86 posts
8/10/2005 7:34 am

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16 hours on AFF, 48 responses so far

I forget sometimes, how hard it is for men out there in the real world. I have had almost 50 men in one night try to get into my pants (gotta love the internet). There are a few really promising leads, so hopefully things will go well. It will take me forever to respond to all of the emails, but I will try my HARDEST.
There is one thing I don't understand though. I started replying this morning and I sent a guy a response, a polite no thank you, and he emailed me back cursing at me. The truth of the matter is, he lives in OKC, and didn't sent a pic, and I specifically put in my profile that all responses without pics would be instantly deleted. Serves me right for actually reading my filtered mail. I dont understand why he would curse at me. Should I just not respond to anyone but the men I want to hook up with?

rm_kwtmagic 53M

8/10/2005 7:47 am

all men are jerks LOL but you are a much better woamn than most to send a polite no thank you. One of the frustrating things about AdultFriendFinder is that it loses messages and there is no way to tell the difference between lack of interest and not getting a message. So I would encourage you to continue to send replies - and ignore the jerks who respond have a great day

AtomicKisss 58M

8/10/2005 8:12 am

Don't let one jerk ruin it for you. Have you considered reporting him to AdultFriendFinder?

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
8/10/2005 10:02 am

hey not bad

don't worry hey that kind of response is the rarity even if you don't intend to hook up with them just say hi and a polite look have too much else in the works would you just like to chat and they usually respond really well and you make some good friends in the mix too


rm_Khasra 43M

8/10/2005 4:22 pm

General experience on this site dictates that most 'newbies' think it's a "plug and play" experience. I've met a few people from this site since my inception here, and it takes TIME. something a lot of males on earth think they do not have. I am with you on the profile requirements though. In this Digital Age, if you don't have a pic...where the hell are you living??? under a rock????

KagainSA 43M
1 post
8/10/2005 6:53 pm

I would have to say personally, send that reply its just polite. For the few oddballs who try and get uptight with you turning em down, well there is no real hope for em, try and let them just slide off your back.

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