smartmama 58F
181 posts
10/6/2005 1:30 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I am wasting time reading blogs, here and in my other bloggy home.

I have work deadlines, but I am not working.

Has anyone noticed the full page of cock shots on the AdultFriendFinder Home Page?

I wonder if you can customize the opening page. If I could, I would opt to see faces, hairless, beautiful, radiant, faces.

No cock shots.

Shots of kissing.

There is a blog I like (not an AdultFriendFinder blog) where the writer posts pictures of himself, jeans a little bit unzipped, pretty belly, provocative. The face is obscured for privacy. They arouse me.

But cock shots, shots of dildos stuck in stubbly pussies, don't do it for me. Do they do it for anyone? Yeah, I know there is a billion dollar porn market. Okay, don't answer that.

I know men are more visual. And mostly I am a sucker for a good narrative, but I feel a flutter from the tease of what isn't shown. I just don't dig the obvious, the close up, the hard core. A little bit of a veil.

A deadline missed, and I REALLY SHOULD BE WORKING. And this is an awful lot of whining for a first post on a blog called zen sex.

Here is what I'm hoping. I whine, then I am restored to that state of calm.

Here to spill. No editing.

CarerPositSwigs 48M

10/6/2005 2:41 pm

Im with you...I worry some one will lose an eye.;D

smartmama 58F

10/6/2005 3:05 pm


trustno01 55M  
2364 posts
10/6/2005 3:29 pm

I have a picture of me in a suit and tie. Guess that's too much. LOL But have no cock pictures other than for those in my network.

rm_pchamp012004 55M
2672 posts
10/6/2005 4:56 pm

I must be wierd, but I would actually prefer to see a woman in provacative clothing than fully nude with everything hanging out. You have to leave something to the imagination.

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
10/6/2005 5:04 pm

You're not alone,

what are women thinking when I scroll down their profile page and find 467 guys in their network and every one of the 8 pics shown is bulging with cock. Up until this "feature" being viewable to those not in the network, I had in 2 years on AdultFriendFinder spied accidentally maybe a half dozen dicks. My first day this past Monday, that experience soared past 100.

well sorry for ranting on your blog,

now bakc to mine,



cajunpet 70M
1185 posts
10/6/2005 5:31 pm

Welcome to Blogland.

Spill what's on your mind.

Have Fun!
Take care.
Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

Cajun Pet

SexGoddess1957 59F
6 posts
10/6/2005 5:48 pm

I like to see the main package...but with a face as well. As far as for the profiles..and the first pic you see..I agree with you. No body parts...but as I have done with mine...I started with my shirt on, and over the course of 4-5 pics...took it off. Kind of like a still shot strip. But only the tits. The rest they have to work for.

caressmewell 53F

10/6/2005 6:20 pm

I read your post and went back through the last 100 hits on my profile, 8% were cock shots, 1% was a intercourse pic, 2% were views of nude backsides and 89% were a combination of face/shadow shots. I have to say that the percentages today were better than in previous weeks.

Hopefully they will learn that less explict nudity is more erotic.

rm_songbird5419 62F
305 posts
10/19/2005 8:57 am

I prefer to unwrap the "package" in private!!

If you are strong and push through the pain and the fear, you often find that happiness is waiting for you on the other side.

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