Some actor I  

smartmama 58F
181 posts
10/7/2005 7:17 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Some actor I


is quoted in my daughter's magazine, talking about sex on the first date:

"If you do it, chances are it's not going to go anywhere. But if you both know it's not going anywhere, then there's nothing wrong with it."

Paul Walker

Kinda sums up AdultFriendFinder for me.

smartmama 58F

10/7/2005 12:27 pm

Thanks for the welcome cum. I just read your lovely and romantic posts.

Isn't this guy saying that if you jump into bed immediately, that there is less of a chance for it to become a relationship with a capital R. He is saying, if you both agree it is just a roll in the hay, then you might as well get to it, but if you want me to marry you, don't be a Ho (with a capital H). Hehe.

The reason I said it sums up AdultFriendFinder is that when I first arrived I was all bright eyed and bushy tailed. Then I met the liars. Now I am a little wiser. Sex site.

And didn't Clinton say, "I did not have sex with that girl."


CarerPositSwigs 48M

10/7/2005 1:09 pm

The online world is full of liars. people can be anything they want to present themselves as. I hope that bad experiance wasnt to painful.


smartmama 58F

10/9/2005 4:23 am

I hope that bad experiance wasnt to painful.

islander, multiply that experience many times. i think the psychoanalytic term is "repetition compulsion." still here, and there is a lot of the good stuff too. just too old for the bullshit. and i am better at cutting my losses now.

whoknew, it isn't that they lied about who they were, it is that they concealed, ya know? and i agree, best to meet right away. i have met some good people online, otherwise i'd have given up completely, i think.


gnr8nrg 46M

10/14/2005 1:15 pm

I've been in a relationship with a woman that had sex with me when we first met. Not even a date yet. Most people judge that, but others don't. I was talking to a buddy of mine about a woman I wanted a relationship with, but she just wanted sex. I didn't have sex or ask her for another date. We worked together and remained friends though. At this same job I went out with a different woman who wanted sex that night and so did I. She also wanted a relationship and I did not, so no sex. I'd say it was my morals, but the truth was a cop came up to the car as we were getting naked. He saw what was going on and said to take about ten minuites before we had to go. (funny huh?) I came to my senses and said that's O.K. and took her home. It's about what you want, with who you want. Be honest with yourself and then with them. That way it's soooo much more fun.


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