smartmama 58F
181 posts
11/5/2005 10:46 am

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Postscript to yesterday's post: Guy came back on webcam for another round and I had already lost interest. Then, because he is married, he said he is off the computer for the weekend, and would I be around Monday morning. Nope.

I am just trying to figure it out.

Then this AdultFriendFinder mail from a very nice man.

I scratch my head wondering if you are here on AdultFriendFinder to actually meet men, or just to have fun and to express yourself. Or have you given up? Or was the blog I am recalling simply written in moments of your own form of defeatism?

In answer: I have met men here. I think at this point I am wary. I probably have given up. I am here to have fun and express myself. And I do think my writing has a melancholy aspect. I write to spill it and leave it. Not sure if it is defeatism, but it may be.

And what's with the ample description? Your photo did not capture anyone obese. Have you put on weight or was your choice of "ample" designed to ward off leeches?

My breasts are 36DD. I think in anyone's book that would be seen as ample.

I am large and curvy.

Is ample synonymous with obese?

caressmewell 53F

11/5/2005 12:59 pm

I don't think so. I would think that "extra padding" lends itself more to obese.

janmecir 53M
158 posts
11/5/2005 5:27 pm

Hi S & M

Ample? Couldn't that be synonymous with plump? or plumptious
(if we're talking about your girls we could call them 'buxom'}
(if we're talking about your figure we could call that 'rubenesque')

ok lets leave 'obese' out of your 'large and curvy'...

Wary? Defeatism?
Maybe even abit jaded....moving towards cynical? ('To ward off the leeches')

I don't do enough on here to encourage discouragement
I don't webcam....i don't search....i don't chat.
all i do on here is blog

....there's a word for webcam sex: desultory...

(but maybe i don't really 'know' (enough) to warrant saying that....)

I'd give this guys cock a miss...


smartmama 58F

11/6/2005 4:48 pm

caress, yeah, that is what i figured.

jan, yes, plump, plumptious (hehe) buxom, curvy, soft. I like to think, Russ Meyer Vixen, speaking of film references.

cock a miss. can we coin it?

here is a great list of synonms for desultory:

accidental, aimless, arbitrary, careless, casual, chance, designless, devil-may-care, disorderly, disorganized, erratically, fluke, helter-skelter, incidental, indiscriminate, irregular, loose, offhand, purposeless, random, reckless, slapdash, slipshod, spontaneous, sudden, unconcerned, unconscious, unconsidered, uncoordinated, unexpected, unmethodical, unorganized, unpremeditated, unsystematic, unthinking, willy-nilly

I think they perfectly describe my current state. So thank you for that. xoxo

smartmama 58F

11/6/2005 9:59 pm


cozy1957 59M

11/6/2005 10:08 pm

ample is in the eye of the beholder, or something like that.
And don't give up. James Bond may just fall out of the sky and land on your plumptious breasts.
then you'll be shaken and stirred....

smartmama 58F

11/7/2005 9:23 am

cozy, remember pussy galore? now that would be a great AdultFriendFinder moniker. hehe.

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
11/7/2005 6:50 pm

Ample is under body type. Which means in that sense, ample bodied. If you look ample up in the dictionary, it means large. I consider ample somewhere between a little extra padding and large. Ample bodied and ample breasted are two different things. There is a seperate category on profiles if you want to list your breast size.

From the dictionary:

1. Of large or great size, amount, extent, or capacity: an ample living room. See Synonyms at spacious.
2. a. Large in degree, kind, or quantity: an ample reward.
b. More than enough: ample evidence.
3. Fully sufficient to meet a need or purpose: had ample food for the party. See Synonyms at plentiful.

adj 1: more than enough in size or scope or capacity; "had ample food for the party"; "an ample supply" [ant: meager] 2: affording an abundant supply; "had ample food for the party"; "copious provisions"; "food is plentiful"; "a plenteous grape harvest"; "a rich supply" [syn: copious, plenteous, plentiful, rich] 3: fairly large; "a sizable fortune"; "an ample waistline"; "of ample proportions" [syn: sizable, sizeable]

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
11/8/2005 4:29 am

I just use large. It tends to drive away the more shallow ones. And I am large, anyway. I've no need for false advertising.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

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