slighty sexy blog  

slightly_sexy8 38F
361 posts
8/7/2005 1:43 am

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slighty sexy blog

i joined AdultFriendFinder about 2 weeks ago now... it's been a fairly interesting experience so far i suppose although to be honest i'm not sure how much i like it overall. is it just me cause i'm actually surprised how many men have photos of their bits up and expect asking me to take a look at them is the best way to start a conversation. oh well, up to them of course.

it's fun for a laugh and i have talked a couple of times now to some interesting people who i would like to get to know better and if we had met in a 'normal' way no doubt would but i have my doubts that i would ever actually meet anyone from here. i do like the interaction in the chat rooms, it's amazingly comical at times if you just take a bit of time to sit back and watch. really good fun.

people ask about photos and why haven't i posted one? would i really want my photo here... i am thinking not especially as i am prone to give out too much info without realising it and am bound to get myself in trouble somehow. the alternative is to take some shot of my private bits but do i really want to do that either? you talk to people in the room and some of them act like it's mandatory that you have your ass photo up on the profile and either march over to yahoo or jump in the next taxi to meet them for 'fun'. i guess some, or the way they talk about it seems like many may do that. seems v scary to me. the first person i talked to here gave me some advice about just going what feels right to me and that i am in control of my own computer if things make me uncomfortable. i am going to remember that, cause its true.


et_lad 41M

8/7/2005 3:32 am

"Slightly sexy" elicits more excitement in me than those awful pictures.


E2DIR
442 posts
8/7/2005 4:33 am

yes good sexy blog.kisses


slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/7/2005 6:33 am

um, i didn't really think about that anyone would actually be reading this, much lesss people i hadn't talked to before but thanks for commenting sakrilej.(clever name btw). i don't know if you will ever even come back to read this but if by chance you do i just wanted to say i liked your questions and they made me think a bit which is one of the things i like to do best. i like being challenged on my thinking. i also had a look at your blog (which was fun to read as i hadn't read any other here and i think i might quite enjoy reading and commenting in a few blogs, so thanks for opening my eyes to that) and your profile...it was quite a coincidence the comments you have in your profile because when i was out walking this morning i was thinking about this place and wondering myself why i was here. i was thinking to myself that i think i, too, know more about what i am not looking for than what i am.

and i agree, i must be here for a reason but do i really have to define it or can i just not let the experience unfold? i don't know what i want in most things when i am starting out. it doesn't bother me but it does seem to bother people who want to control or participate in my destiny. or maybe thats because i tend to pick strong,opinionated people to talk to and they always want me to do things a certain way, who knows.... all i know is i often don't know why i do the things i do in life till i am ready to move on to the next thing. what's most important to me is that i keep my self-respect, that i live and learn and enjoy the experiences i have along the way.

so yes, there probably is a reason for everything, even for coming to AdultFriendFinder. maybe just even writing here will help me figure it out as i have seemed to rambled on rather aimlessly here but enjoyed it. so thanks for getting me started here. much appreciated and happy blogging!


rm_B0SSIERBOY 57M
476 posts
8/7/2005 1:43 pm

I think you, like most people, came here to find something you can connect to. There's all sorts of sex talk but as far as I can tell you're pretty safe from ever having to confront it in reality. There is an awefull lot of talk on this site, as there is on most others.

I think people need to feel some excitement in their life so they come to a site like this looking for something out of the ordinary. Maybe something just a little dangerous, or dangerous sounding, and they are satisfied with that. Most never actually DO anything about their fantasies.

So welcome aboard. Just wade right in, be as naughty or nice as you like, there are people here that will accept you either way.


slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/8/2005 1:53 am

i am actually amazed at your response after reading a bit of your blog bossierboy. sounds like from reading there at you are doing quite a bit about your fantasies . . but thanks for leaving a message welcoming me aboard and encouraging me to just be myself or whoever i want to be - naughty or nice. i have found i can be both.

and if you do come back to read this, just know that my comment to you on your blog was suppose to be challenge, not a criticism.


rm_B0SSIERBOY 57M
476 posts
8/8/2005 6:12 am

Always nice to get first crack at fresh meat I've been writing long enough not to take anything personally even if it is critisism, but thanks for the post. Any suggestions on improving the writing?

Just a hint, I don't write fantasy. I don't have that much imagination.


slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/8/2005 11:16 am

fresh meat? well, thats just charming

as your blog looks rather established and mine is a day old i will hold off on any suggestions on improvement although i'm sure i could if i set my mind to it.


slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/8/2005 11:19 am

and et lad, what awful pictures?


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