reap what you sow  

slightly_sexy8 38F
361 posts
8/18/2005 9:14 am

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reap what you sow

i read the blogs. people ask questions which they almost seem they might like an answer to, like why they aren't getting responses to their emails, why the people are all fakes here, why their requests for discreet friends with benefits (which must be one of oddest sayings i have so far come across) are not being met. should i answer if i have an opinion? or are they really just rhetorical questions?

i feel a bit agitated today. maybe it's the heat or maybe it's just frustration at people here. how silly is that to get bothered by it, but i keep reading these posts and words and profiles and wishes and it just all seems a waste of people. or maybe it's a waste of me that i am bothered about. it's something.

i just want to shout "use your brain"... women aren't like men. i don't want to see a picture of your ding-dong when i don't know you, it's not the best introduction. learn a bit of intrigue.... i could go on but what's the point.

sigh. okay. that was a bit silly and useless. do i just delete it and leave nothing for today or post it and move on? a bit of both perhaps. let's see if i can turn this around a bit.

there's some great profiles and blogs out there. some interesting people too. i wish everyone would start a blog, especially those who are feeling they aren't coming across the people they want. it really does give others quite an insight into what you are like and just writing something down really does clarify thinking. it's certainly giving me an additional insight into the male psyche...

actually that's the key, what's missing. a soul. attention to feelings. your feelings and mine. karma. reap what you sow. you want no 'feelings', that will be exactly what you get.

redmustang91 57M  
8604 posts
8/18/2005 10:03 am

Its all fantasies in fantasy land. There is no such things as "no strings" because everything has some strings, they might just be short!

I find it easier to accept that we are all crazy, just some more attractively!

slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/18/2005 11:13 am

i liked that reply very much.

adventuretall 34M
3 posts
8/18/2005 3:36 pm

some people live in a materialistic world, whereby they do not see the person inside of you, but a conquest or challenge then move on! some look to see if and how much they will benefit from a relationship and are only really interested in looking after number 1.
i like to get to know the people in my relationships and find out the inner person. i can be a sensitive person so i do not want to cause pain or suffering as i find it difficult to deal with myself! i like to have in'depth conversations and can have a spiritual outlook on things sometimes! i'm a caring person with a good heart who holds those close to him very dearly!
i would like to contact you, would you be interested?
take care x

476 posts
8/21/2005 12:42 am

Well here I go being a cynic again, but I thought the last post was a come on after about the first or second line. Not that it's a bad thing, after all, that is why we're supposedly here.

I was a bit saddened by your post, I feel that my cynicism may have in some way rubbed off or taited your opinion. Sorry, didn't mean to, I just call em like I see em.

I liked your comments at the end of the post, if I see one more "dick pic" I think I'll scream. Maybe I'm just jealous.

I think the key is to not take this too seriously. Think of it as entertainment and all the weirdness becomes a bit more palatible (I hope I spelled that correctly).

I have a much better attitude today after a night out. I met two fabulous women that I had a great time with, and I didn't have to exchange one email! Just keep that in mind the next time you start feeling like you want company, it's the real world where you have to find what you want, not here in the matrix.

For what it's worth, I think you are way cool. I really like you. Wanna meet me in Germany jk


AlbertPrince 57M

8/21/2005 4:12 am

I prefer no-strings relationships because I do'n know what you're supposed to do with the string

slightly_sexy8 38F
314 posts
8/21/2005 1:17 pm


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