um..DUDE..Can you not Read?  

slidein2meplz 61F
1363 posts
1/9/2006 2:03 am

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

um..DUDE..Can you not Read?

This was my reply back....

"You obviously did not read my profile..did ya?"

that's it... that's all I wrote.

Sender: ******
To: slidein2meplz
Date: Jan 9, 2006 1:36 AM MST
Hi I will be in Scottsdale week of Barrett Jackson auction. Dude.. I don't live in Scottsdale
18th-21st of january.
I am interested in meeting a new friend,
please write soon and lets set up a time, generously yours, AL

Generously??? what the f**k does he think I am...?? FFS
------ Profile Attached -------
I am an attractive guy & love all types of fun,& you wont be disapointed.I really enjoy making my partners feel great. There just is something about the excitement of new friends!!

*sigh* Gosh...looks like I won't be gettng a new friend....oh woe is me!

[color Actually this is sorta ironic...and FUNNY...cuz some of us gals of this ~~ friendly place ~~ were talking.. girl stuff ya know.

Anyway, we sorta got on this subject of messages we get...ESPECIALLY...when we've stated over and over and over...and well you get the idea... that we aren't looking...and what sorts of replies we send back, if they even get a reply.

2 days in a row.. I've changed/updated my profile...yesterday (Saturday) and again today (Sunday) and I clearly say... Don't message, don't wink, don't add me to your hotlist, don't invite me to be a network friend...

Yet... what do I get... I get messages, I get winked at, I get put in the hotlist... I get invted to network.

WHY, WHY, WHY do you guys think you can and/or should message?


I would have used my standard "we have a very nice underground newspaper here and I'm sure you can find yourself an escort"...for these types of messages from men just passing thru town.

But for FFS... he didn't even have my CITY right! LOL....

Could someone enlighten us gals as to why these men...or women (I'm sure it's happening to men too...which it probably does) send messages, when we say not to?

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
1/9/2006 3:06 pm

Ummm...cuz either they don't read or they are idiots. No other explaination.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
1/9/2006 4:50 pm

geesh...I know Daphne...I tell ya.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
1/9/2006 7:08 pm

hee hee ..even the mentally deficient need love too ya know!

slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
1/9/2006 7:40 pm

Oh..I guess so SJ...but do we hafta?

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
1/9/2006 9:39 pm

lol no slide hunny we dont ...but somebody oughta

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rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
1/10/2006 6:17 pm

I simply send back, "thanks for the unwanted email" and remind them "to jump over to sprkycpllv69, for all their answers, and then re-read mine and do not contact me again", because after all that is what I state in my profile.

We also get the unwanted ones on our couple one as well. If I get to them before sprky does, he deletes them, I send them the; go back and start at the beginging dork..LOL I so enjoy not granting access to my network and deleting my winks and sending the "thanks for the unwanted emial, dork" hehehehe makes my day

No matter what you say, how many times you say it in your profile, they don't care. Just keep deleting or sending the "thanks for the unwanted email, now go back take the time to actually read my profile and don't contact me again. thanks"

hugs and smiles

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