California dreaming.....  

slidein2meplz 62F
1363 posts
3/12/2006 1:46 pm

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California dreaming..... I come.
<<~~Here's the door that opened when the other one closed...and behind it is a new life.

Slide is moving to Riverside, Ca. as soon as a few details are worked out. It does have a lot to do with Jefe...but it also has a lot to do with my daughter and my wanting to be closer to them.

Some of you may already know...and to some of you this is new "NEWS"....Jefe and I are in love...however we both know and realize it's all still very new and we are aware that we are moving rather fast...but we both know from experience the hard way...that life is very, very short.

We've both lost significant others to an early to cancer and one to a motorcycle accident. Both of these special souls we cared and loved were in their early 30's...and it was many years we both grieved for their loss. Mine, was close to 4 years before I was able to be "ok" with it.

I'm hoping/planning on going out next week and will stay either until I find a new job, then come home and pack up and move or..will stay until May 1st...if I don't find one by then and then come home and pack up...and move.

My grand daughters birthday is the 23rd of April and his is the I want to be there for that and was originally planning on just going then.

However, we decided it made more sense to come out now so that my job search and/or interviews and so forth would be easier, plus I can't afford to just fly out for 1 or 2 interviews back and forth. It will also give us time to build the relationship...and determine if I move straight in with him or get a place of my own...until we are ready to live together.

My daughter is ecstatic...she screamed with happiness that her momma was gonna be closer.

I'm anxious to get this show on the road...start and build a new life with Jefe and of course be closer to my daughter and grand daughter (son-in-law too).

Moving to California is going to have it's up's and down's and won't be easy. I have a lot of things I need to do and things to consider, like whether to rent out my house and let my brother be in charge of all that...deciding what to take out there and so forth.

Jefe will of course do what he can and will come and assist with the last leg of, between the 2 of long as we stay focused and continue to nurture and build this relationship...I don't see or feel there will be many obstacles in the way.

Anyway...that's the newest scoop goin on with me.

Have any of you ever relocated to start new with someone you've met and fallin in love with via the internet?

How did it turn out?

Are you still together?

What sorts of problems did you run into during the big move?

Any advice?

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

kyplowboy22 61M

3/12/2006 5:00 pm

Well, like I told you on IM, Slide, if anyone on here deserves a break it's you kid. Hope you all the happiness you can find. My neighbor here, found his mate on AdultFriendFinder. She was in CA and came here and has been here ever sense. That was about three years ago, so things do happen. I have found the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with on here and we are just working through the logistics of it now. It will be as good as you want it to be, thats just the way the world Again, friend, my thoughts are with you and hurry and get settled in CA and get back to us in the blogs and chats. Later


slidein2meplz 62F
1994 posts
3/12/2006 7:25 pm

Thanks for your support KP. We know we have a lot of work cut out for us, but we'll make it. I know you and your love will also.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
3/12/2006 7:29 pm

Awesome to hear! Best wishes and best of luck.

womanoirish 54F

3/13/2006 8:01 am

Congrats, Slide! We'll be'll be in Southern CA and I'm in Northern but still - same state!

I hope everything works out for both of you.

slidein2meplz 62F
1994 posts
3/13/2006 9:26 am

onelittlesecret ~~ Thank you sweet pea! Now come to momma

Sensuous_Salz ~~ Thanks...I'll need it. I'm hoping it will go well.

womanoirish ~~ Howdy It was cool to meet and chat with you the other night...for some reason, I thought you lived in Ireland. LOL. Take care and thanks for the well wishes

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
3/14/2006 12:44 pm

Glad to see you so happy and I know it will all work out. you deserve a break.

slidein2meplz 62F
1994 posts
3/14/2006 5:32 pm

candy69sosweet ~~ Oh my bad..candy forgive much goin on, but you know your my bestest friend here in Blogland. Maybe he and I will take a trip to Vegas in May??? Wouldn't that be cool? Or I may still be able to. I haven't forgotten.

oldman1776 ~~ Thank you "C"...I am really hoping so. This is a pretty big step but I'm ready for it...and looking forward to positive changes. He's a good guy, which of course you know, cuz you've gotten a chance to visit with him in chat. We're both looking forward to a solid future together.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

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