True To Yourself.....  

sirarrowhead2 49M/37F
11 posts
3/23/2005 3:33 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

True To Yourself.....

Last week a friend that I met on this site told me that she met a male who was a fraud. In essence, his looks did not match his photo. I asked myself, what would I have done in that situation? Well, I found out last night. I met a female whom did not match the photos on her profile. She said she gained a little weight. Now, there is reality & there is "cyber" world. In the real world, society sets the bar & we are who we are. In the "cyber" world, YOU set the bar, but you still are who you are.
Be true to yourself. Society has fucked it up enough, that's why we are here. In the real world if you are short & pudgey, too damn bad. But in this world it should be cool, because there is someone out there looking for short & pudgey! Don't sell yourself short & give a untrue description of yourself. In the long run you are setting yourself up for failure. It might take a little longer to find a match for you, but it will be worth it. Everyone has a preference, be it tall & sexy, or short & pudgey.
I stopped to think if she was doing it for me? Hell, she doesn't even know me, why would she lie to me? It had to be for herself. Hey, I don't want to get to psychological, but lets not taint what we have here. Be you, screw what the next person thinks. Isn't that why you are here?

HughClitedChik 47F
9 posts
4/10/2005 5:04 pm

I totally agree. I get so many men posing as women to talk to me because i love women. Its just crazy. Hey! Sirarrowhead2...send me your email. I cant get in touch with u.


rm_phire 43F

4/26/2005 9:40 pm

Isn't it funny how people lie and don't keep it real? What's funnier is that, usually the people who complain about people not being real or true are the EXACT ones who are not honest FORTHCOMING OR real. Sirarrowhead2, I know EXACTLY what you're saying...Isn't that irritating? To me, it's down right disgusting.

Nubianloveprince 52M
1 post
3/17/2006 3:43 am

All u have to do is ask for a RECENT pic! I must admit, I DO look like my pic, probably better by now because I work out EVERYDAY!

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