Sex on the first date?  

sinnocence_ok 49F
1597 posts
7/16/2006 11:02 am

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Sex on the first date?

Im not sure how any of you gals or guys feel about this but here goes, thats why the blogs exist right? lol..After having time to think about things.. and just getting back into the dating scene..If a woman has sex with a man on the first date, its ok, but do the men think she's a slut? just a question..If she doesnt is she a prude or a tease, according to what ive heard, not been told thats what a man thinks. So i guess this would be a question more for the men. Would clearly love to hear what the women think as well on this subject. Its really hard deciding what to do on that first date, it is for me anyway. I suppose us pieceans are too damn sensitive! lol ~smiles~


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10 posts
7/25/2006 12:21 am

As long as it is consensual and the feelings exist, I see no harm!! If the attraction is there and both parties come out feeling good about the experience, I see no harm!!

dc8ball 34M

7/18/2006 7:02 pm

If you are truly looking to develop a good relationship I dont think you should have sex on the first date. But if the chemistry is just dynamite maybe but I would prefer to wait if I am trulyinto this girl.

GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
7/17/2006 1:41 pm

Go with the flow on it.

Sometimes it doesn't feel right, and if so, then let him know that the timing isn't right just yet. Sometimes it's all you can do to make it through dinner without burning rubber outta the parking lot back to your place.

I guess it depends on the relationship as it has been built up prior to the date. If you've only known the guy for a week, then it's probably not the wisest move. But on the other hand if you've been talking for a while and have gotten to establish a friendship and know him somewhat, then the time may be right.

No one answer will be universal here.

rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
7/16/2006 1:17 pm

Sex on the first date is not a death sentence to the relationship, especially one from this site, but it does make you open to an endless parade of guys who just come to do you, and then never call you again.

It's your choice, depending upon how long you've been looking, and how horny you are...LOL And ya, some of the guys would think that of us, but again, see above paragraph...if that's what you want, go for it!



expatbrit49 62M

7/16/2006 1:11 pm

there is nothing wrong with it as long as both people want it and dont worry about being a slut, if you ahve been a lady on the date then a slut in bed... they will be back because thats what most guys want

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