What's the answer?  

singleNsd25 40M
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4/9/2006 3:28 pm

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10/29/2006 4:52 pm

What's the answer?

So I've been on AdultFriendFinder for off and on for years. Mostly off until the last four months. I've read plenty of profiles from all of you ladies on here. Now of course a good portion of those profiles are fake. Although it usually is pretty easy to tell the fake ones from the real ones.
Of all the real profiles I see a mix of the same things that the ladies want in a man.
So now with that being said ladies...What is it that you are truly seeking here on AdultFriendFinder? I know nobody is perfect so I know you're not looking for Mr. Perfect but you want someone that fits with you "perfectly" so to say.
So tell me and all the other men on here what it is that you truly want.

YourDateTonight 42F

4/9/2006 4:47 pm

You guys are so funny! I keep hearing about those "PHantom profiles". LOL
Now - What do women want? I don't know, but I will tell you what I want. I am not here looking for a husband or boyfriend. I have a busy life that has no time for that but I have "needs" that need to be tended to. Regardless of whether I am on here looking for sex or not, I am still a lady and need to be treated like one, not like a whore. This is no different than meeting at a bar. But at least at a bar you have the advantage of meeting someone face to face and at least engaging in small talk before you decide whether this is someone whose face you want burried in your crotch all night! I don't know what men are thinking when they say "nice profile, want to get together tonight and fuck?" ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Do you guys do this at bars too? NO - you need to establish some type of chemistry. Personally, I can't and won't have sex with anyone simply because you're a man or I'm a woman. Lets at least share a meal, a drink, something. I want to know who it is I am laying with after it's all said and done. Too much to ask for? Maybe. I just don't want all the drama that comes with a relationship.

rm_dchoney74 42F

4/23/2006 10:29 am

Interesting question. I have always over thought the answer to this...so for now I am just seeing what comes and trying to be open to it...because you never know. You might meet someone really great and fun and adorable that you weren't expecting...so it winds up being worth it, even if he does hate the Yankees.

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