Opening Up  

sincitybrunette 55F  
3159 posts
3/18/2006 10:24 am

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4/14/2006 9:42 pm

Opening Up

The last few months have been extremely hard for me. I have found that people I thought were my friends, were not. People that I didn't know existed were my strongest supporters. And most of all, I found out some things about myself that surprised me.

I have really missed the time that I spent on this site writing and reading blogs. I love the freedom to make comments and have people give me their thoughts. So on that note, I am opening myself up again to the blogging masses to do with as they will.

Is there anyone out there that can honestly say they are 100% happy with themselves and the way their lives have gone?

If so, please let us in on your secret.

loadeddice05 44M

3/18/2006 1:02 pm

Is anyone really ever happy with everything in their life??

expatbrit49 62M

3/18/2006 1:32 pm

100% happy with yourself is a hard thing for anyone, but I am generally happy, Strange, but happy

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

rm_Lottie_Dah 68F
53 posts
3/18/2006 1:54 pm

I'm not one of those people. (Do they even exist?) My past hasn't been total happiness, but I don't think that's a bad thing. I've probably learned and grown more because of past mistakes and disappointments than I would have if everything had always been easy and happy.

rm_magnet4u22 49F
18406 posts
3/18/2006 4:18 pm

I think we would all like to know the answer to that one. The best we can do is to learn to like/love ourselves and hopefully other things follow suit.


ella1966 50F
1528 posts
3/18/2006 5:26 pm

Dear sincitybrunette, no I am not! I have tried to do my best with people, with my husband, with the person I fell for on this site. I have tried to reach out to others, but rarely find the answers I am looking for. I am very lonely and spend far too much time on here when I should be doing studying or housework or visiting my mother. I am sad and not hopeful of finding happiness again. But I live and learn and you will too. There are no secrets, just be the best person you can and you will hopefully attract good people in your life. Best wishes always,

Gaby X

rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
3/20/2006 8:30 am

I am definitely one of your supporters. In fact, let me take it a step further...I volunteer to be your personal boob supporter. Takes the living bra to a whole new level.

[blog talldarkavg1]

fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
3/20/2006 1:34 pm

I agre--if there please let EVERYONE in on the secret-----Really good to see ya again---missed ya.


easyliven45 55M

4/9/2006 5:36 pm

I've learned that anyone who says they're 100% happy is lying or hasn't had anything really bad happen to them. Worst of all admitted to them self what it is they really seek. I certainly understand hard times and fair weathered friends. I hope whatever it was has gotten better and you've found some contentment in what you're doing.

I loved reading your writings, at least I'm not the only one who feels these things....

sincitybrunette 55F  
1668 posts
4/14/2006 5:24 pm

loaded - I would have to say that right now I am about as close to 100% as possible....

expat - I wouldnt say strange....just a little more unique than most

lottie - as long as you learned...your time will come

magnet - couldnt have said it better myself

sincitybrunette 55F  
1668 posts
4/14/2006 5:27 pm

ella - I am truly sorry to hear that your life is not as it should be... keep looking, I found mine, you will too

tda - boob supporter.....only you could make me smile with that one... I just might have to take you up on it

fun4all - missed you to... as soon as I find out the secret, you will be one of the first I tell it too

sincitybrunette 55F  
1668 posts
4/14/2006 5:29 pm

easylivin - glad that you enjoy what I write, its nice to know I am not alone...

lovinglasvegas - I know how you feel...finding that special someone has given me the strength and confidence to do things I would never have even dreamed about before.... you are so right when you say dont give up. There is someone out there for everyone. I am glad that I found mine....

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