Glad it was Playboy ......  

sincitybrunette 55F
3159 posts
10/17/2005 10:18 pm

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Glad it was Playboy ......

The day finally came, and boy did it hit home. I took my son to a baseball tournament this weekend, so time was spent with a group of teenage boys. The overheard conversations were to say the least not ones I seem to remember from when I was that age.

Sure I know that boys talk about girls...but these talks were really dirty. I listened to them talk about how easy this girl was, or how much they wanted to get in this girls pants... geez, did they really talk like that when I was that age?

Then the ultimate....when packing my sons bag to come home, wham...there was the ever popular Playboy magazine. He was a little embarrassed but just kind of smiled and said to me, 'you know how it is mom'....ouch

I guess its time to realize that my son is no longer my little boy and start treating him like a young man.

Guess all I can say is glad it was Playboy and not Penthouse.....


jonnyblong 55M

10/18/2005 1:47 am

YOU GOT JONNY EXCITED, DOES HE NEED TO GO BUY A PENTHOUSE AND HOPE TO FIND YOUR PICTURE ON A PAGE THAT LEAVES ME DROOLING ON THE PAGE.
ABOUT HTE SAME I FOUND MY DAD'S STASH WHILE CLEANING THE ATTIC, NEVER AGAIN DID A WEEK GO BY WITH ME IN THE ATTIC CLEANING THE DUST FROM THE ISSUES MY DAD HAD FORGOTTEN WASIN THE ATTIC.


Sweetest_Sin_Jes 36F

10/18/2005 4:34 am

Boys will be boys! And I LOVE those girls on the cover - Hugh's girlfriends! I watch them all the time on E's "Girls Next Door"! They are so cute 'n funny!

Jess


rm_pchamp012004 55M
2672 posts
10/18/2005 10:30 am

He probably only reads them for the articles


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/18/2005 11:00 am

jonny - no, you wont find me in penthouse...lol


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/18/2005 11:01 am

Jess - I watch it too whenever I get the chance...they do some wild stuff on that show.....


scottdammit11 53M

10/18/2005 12:38 pm

It could be worse, he could be reading "The Anarchist's Cookbook." Indeed, there are mothers out there whose sons are reading scriptures, and planning to die for one God or another. May your son continue to seek out beauty in these ugly, ugly days.


rm_rick89052 58M

10/18/2005 1:00 pm

As a mother, I am sure you think that your boy will not do those things. However, as was said above, boys will be boys and men will be men. We are all horny from the age of 12. I was in high school and college in the late 70's and yes the language was extremely stong back then also. I played baseball and football and was exposed to some very extreme things at a young age. Your boy will be also. However, impart the values you cherish and he will develope into a strong good person. I am the perfect example!!
Later pretty Brunette


jonnyblong 55M

10/18/2005 3:07 pm

then why should I rent the penthouse in vegas for the weekend if you want be in it waiting for me.


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/18/2005 3:53 pm

pchamp - just like I read it for the cartoons....lol


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/18/2005 3:57 pm

scott - I can honestly say that I am 100% him now. He is a smart kid and very well adjusted....if he wants to look at the pics...go for it


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/18/2005 3:58 pm

rick - I could only hope that those values are already instilled. And believe me, I know boys will be boys and that is why I am glad he feels he can talk about those things around me.
I can only take your word on the example part...lol


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/18/2005 7:59 pm

jonny - two completely different penthouses sweetie....


toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
10/19/2005 6:33 am

When I was 13, I asked my mother to buy me my first issue of Playboy, because I was too young to buy it myself. She did. Just as if I had asked her to get me some candy.


TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
10/19/2005 10:30 am

How old is your son, Sin?

Mine is 13, going on 30. He knows way more than I did at his age and, on the whole, I think that's a good thing - sex was a totally taboo topic in my household when I was growing up and I had to learn from whispered (and typically misleading) conversations with my peers and what little I could pick up from books and magazines. And I can't guarantee that everyone would eventually find as good a tutor as I found (but that is a story for my blog!).

I have to say, though, that if he now gets his hands on porn it'll be a lot stronger than Playboy - at 10 he discovered porn on the Internet and at 11 he brought back Penthouse and some other magazine from a school skiing trip to Switzerland!


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/19/2005 8:03 pm

toothy - arent moms wonderful....better to just buy it and not make a big deal about it


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/19/2005 8:05 pm

Quiet - he is 15 going on 21.....I know the hands on thing.... mine found some cartoon porn on the web and almost fainted when I saw it. But, boys will be boys and I would rather have him do it in front of me, then behind my back...no secrets here.... we openly talk about sex when he has a question


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/20/2005 5:45 am

Biggirlz - i am glad he is open with me too. Hopefully means I wont be a grandma anytime soon.....
My mom didnt talk about sex to me either, luckily I had two older sisters who did......


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/20/2005 1:18 pm

lvhotmale - you can say that again.


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/20/2005 2:28 pm

harshaw - why is it so surprising that they did it with me around? You know me...they say I am the cool mom.......


grisleyadams 55M

10/21/2005 10:12 am

STILL WOULD YOU BE INSIDE THE PENTHOUSE IF I OPEN IT UP,


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/21/2005 11:29 am

grisley...sure I would...just make sure you get the right one


grizzlybearadams 55M

10/26/2005 8:41 am

EVERY NIGHT WHEN I OPEN MY MIND UP TO DREAM I SEE YOU THERE WAITING FOR ME TO GET INTO BED, I KNOW WHICH ONE YOU WILL BE IN MY DEAR.


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/26/2005 2:52 pm

grizzly - like your dreams


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