Bed Buddies .....  

sincitybrunette 55F
3159 posts
8/10/2005 4:06 pm

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Bed Buddies .....

If you were horny as hell and had a really good friend that would jump in between the sheets to help you out...would you. Or would that ruin the friendship?


pointingUp100 54M
5 posts
8/10/2005 7:02 pm

Assuming I was attracted to the person sexually, it would depend on the person's view on sex, relationships, etc. The opportunity to mess up the friendship is definitely there, and misunderstandings and hurt feelings could certainly occur. But they aren't inevitable. If the person was light hearted, open-minded, and not going to flip out emotionally later, sure I would. After all, sex is natural, fun, and just generally wonderful... So where is this friend?


rm_bad71540 49M
2 posts
8/10/2005 9:28 pm

Hell yes!!! Without a doubt....


artistforexploit 60M

8/11/2005 2:59 am

There are times when a really good friend has come to the rescue in times of need, mine our theirs. But it really depends on who the friend is & what their expectations are.
Some of my friends have been around forever & are comfortable knowing that sex can be a part of an endearing friendship without expectations of anything more, sort of lending a shoulder to cry on, but more intimate.
There are of course those whom I wouldn't have sex with because it would lead them to believe that there was something more than just friendship involved.
I think that everyone has their own expectations of the act & unless there are mutually clear cut expectations from both parties, then it would be ludicrous to engage in such an activity.
So under the right conditions I would have to say that there is a chance it could happen without affecting the relationship.


ByteChaser2 53M

8/11/2005 7:17 am

Depending on the friend... YES. And have...

I have a friend here locally - a VERY good friend. She and I depend on each other for advice, companionship, and from time to time, when the need becomes particularly pressing, sex. It hasn't affected our friendship adversely at all, although the freindship was initially founded on sex. In fact, I dare say it's made our friendship that much stronger.

I do agree though, that sex is one of the quickest ways to really Eff up a friendship... and in most instances, I wouldn't normally consider having sex with a friend...


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 7:25 am

pointingup - thats funny, you said the exact same thing that I was thinking. I just wish I had a friend who thought the same way I did...


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 7:26 am

bad - straight and to the point...I like that in a man....


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 7:27 am

sexy - I guess you are right there. Sometimes it just hard to tell if they are really serious when they say it wont hurt the friendship.


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 7:29 am

artist - those are the type of friends that are needed in this type of situation. How do I know that they are being sincere in their offer?


overworkedloon 56M
400 posts
8/11/2005 8:34 am

In my case I think any friend willing to jump between the sheets with me already has and any that haven't probably won't. So in answer to your question, I usually just take matters into my own hands shall we say and don't bother anybody


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 8:40 am

bytechaser - thanks for the insight. I have a friend that I know will be there for me no matter what. Now I guess its up to me to decide if I want to risk it for sex.


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 11:42 am

overworked - gee, that really helped me alot....lol Don't you ever get tired of just handling it yourself?


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
8/11/2005 12:47 pm

It would ruin the friendship forever. My friends are all guys.

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overworkedloon 56M
400 posts
8/11/2005 1:24 pm

I would ask you to help, but you're soooooo far away


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 2:33 pm

TDA - why am I not surprised all your friends are guys....maybe you should try the fairer sex just once.....


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 2:34 pm

overworked - not that far away .....


artistforexploit 60M

8/11/2005 7:21 pm

Well you have to have some really good friends, sincere, honest & open. You have to know that they'll do anything for you without hesitation & expect nothing in return.


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 10:24 pm

artist - friends like that are truly hard to find......and definitely worth the effort of keeping


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/11/2005 11:35 pm

harshaw - are you that type of friend? If I needed you to jump in the sheets with me would you? Something tells me that you would be the type that would help out a friend with no questions asked....


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/12/2005 12:59 pm

Akadafa - I like that, you might! Come on, would you or wouldnt you?


rm_WizardTim12 50M
44 posts
8/13/2005 4:16 pm

Good question. I think it's been pretty well covered, but I agree with most of the posts before. You'd need to be cautious, and make sure that you both were on the same page with what it did (and didn't) mean, but given that you'd talked about it, yes I think it would be OK. And I'd do that, provided we'd talked about it. Communication is the key, but if you're already friends, then you should already have pretty good communication. (If not, you've ALREADY got a problem)


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/14/2005 6:16 pm

wizard - I definitely agree with you on this one. I think I can pretty much figure out now who I could and who I couldn't jump between the sheets with for purely sexual reasons....


artistforexploit 60M

8/15/2005 6:10 pm

sincity: I bet you could find truckloads of friends more than willing to accomodate you...


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/15/2005 10:37 pm

artist - but are they the ones that I would want help from? I can be a little picky....


artistforexploit 60M

8/16/2005 5:54 pm

sincity: Oh so who do you think might help your situation?


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
8/16/2005 7:29 pm

artist - right now not anyone who is close enough to ask.....


jonnyblong 55M

10/17/2005 4:12 am

I FEEL IT DEPENDS ON THE TWO FRIENDS, WOULD THEY BE FRIENDS JUST FOR THE SEX OR FRIENDS FOR LIFE. IF YOU SLIPS AND FALLS THE OTHER WILL HELP BRACE THE FALL, YES IS MY ANSWER I WOULD LOVED TO BE YOUR BED BUDDY JUST WHISTLE, YOU DO KNOW HOW TO WHISTLE PUT THOSE LIPS TOGETHER AND BLOW. JUST TELL ME WHEN.


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/17/2005 8:59 am

jonny - a bed buddy is a friend for life....are you willing to be just that, a friend?


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