Age vs Experience......  

sincitybrunette 55F
3159 posts
7/20/2005 2:05 pm

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Age vs Experience......

A friend of mine just wrote a blog stating that older women get hit on by younger guys a lot more often than older men get hit on by younger women……

I just want to know what it is that makes a younger guy contact a women he knows is definitely older than he is and vica versa....

I have had numerous contacts with younger men and find that the reason they give me is pretty much the same from all of them:

Older women don’t like to play games
Older women know exactly what they want
& Older women are more experienced in the bedroom.

OK, I can agree with those answers, but, how does a younger man think that those younger women are gong to get the experience that the older ones have? Do they think that the younger ones are learning from older men? Not according to the facts that harshawj stated.

So, just for my own information, please tell me why the younger of the opposite sex find it to their advantage to go out of their age range to experience what it is they want to experience?

(Juan S)
2642 posts
7/20/2005 2:28 pm

Its a dog eat dog world. Some of those younger folks are going for older. Some of them are just doing it a lot. LOL.

FriendlyTickler 45M

7/20/2005 4:25 pm

God only knows that if I didn't have an older woman show me the ropes when I was younger what I would be doing now. Early on I was doing everything wrong....and I mean everything. The only saving grace was that the girls that I was with weren't very experienced either. Unfortunately for them, they probably didn't enjoy the experience that much because I was that bad. So from a pleasing stand point, men certainly want to learn what to do. It makes sense doesn't it? If a man does the job well he gets rewarded with a return visit If he doesn't it could be a lot of time spent with Rosie Palm and that doesn't make for good conversation. So learning from an experienced woman can be very helpful.

Maybe this has something to do with the woman hitting their so called sexual prime in the late 30's and 40's. Men finally learn how to properly please a woman and she begins to ask or crave for more.

Maybe I'm stretching it a bit......Tough question.

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
7/20/2005 6:21 pm

Friendly...nice insight. Did you learn everything from an older woman?

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
7/20/2005 7:00 pm

well actually that's totally screwif I prefer older guys, I don't as a rule contact guys who are younger than me

and majority of guys I know go for younger women too

and in regards to perpetuating the knowledge i do occasionally take on one only a couple of years younger than me for training purposes so far I loose all my ones in training when they run off and marry my friends after seriously impressing them in bed


sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
7/20/2005 8:07 pm

Frnds - its nice to know that I am not the only older woman who feels that way. Its flattering to have the attention, but since its really only for sex..I prefer the companionship and communication of someone older and more experienced.

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
7/20/2005 8:09 pm

wyvern - I think it really all does depend on your preference. Training purposes....sounds interesting.

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
7/20/2005 8:11 pm

harshaw - please you know that younger women like older men for the learning experience. Make sure you teach her something extra special ! ! !

rm_mamaneeds_ 60F

7/20/2005 8:32 pm

i think alot of younger guys simply don't want to have sex with someone who has expectations that the relationship is going to "go somewhere" and they know thatthe chances of an older woman wanting a serious relationship with someone much younger are probably slim.

personally, i like spending time with guys that are around my age. it's more fun when you've got someone you can talk to when the sweaty parts over.

sweetlexihoney 35F
2 posts
7/20/2005 10:03 pm

I think it just depends on the person. I as a rule don't go for guys younger than me...just because I don't want to deal with people who have the propensity to be immature. I will say though that my most satisfying sexual experiences (yes, plural) came from a man 9 years older than me and going through a seperation. He knew what he wanted and yet always made sure I got what I wanted. I never had a bad time with was the best 9 months of sex I've ever had!!! He always made sure I had orgasmed fist during foreplay before we moved into the actual sex because he knew that it was then easier for me to orgasm later. It was awesome. Younger guys (and no offense to any of you out there) have a hard time remembering that for women, a simple in and out doesn't always do the trick. Learn to use your hands and your mouths before actual penetration and you'll have your ladies quite satisfied!!!!

artistforexploit 60M

7/21/2005 3:05 am

I yoo must admit to being taught the sexual arts from an older woman, but in day to day encounters, I just want someone who wants me as much as I want them. There are some really exciting women out there that are beautiful that I'd love to be more intimate with & the last thing on my mind is her age....

Funin89012 55M

7/21/2005 11:06 am

Ok, my two sense worth. Harshaw, go for it and tell me how it was later! I too am very thankful for older women and their knowledge and experiences. If I had a much younger woman interested in sex with me, I would take the time a teach her how a woman should be pleased and how she should please a man. Life is all a learning experience so have fun with it.

jonnyblong 55M

10/3/2005 12:43 am

Like a bottle of wine, vintage cars, savings bonds, cheese, old movies, older woman to me are a priceless piece of art that one must have to enjoy and to cherish once in my lifetime. lol

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/9/2005 10:35 pm

mamaneeds - I so truly agree with you on that one....

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/9/2005 10:36 pm

sweetlexi - I think I have found that guys my age or a little older are definitely more my speed. Its not always stamina that brings about the best lovers...its a man knowing what a woman likes and sharing it with her.

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/9/2005 10:37 pm

artist - you my friend are one of a kind....

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/9/2005 10:38 pm

funin - do you have anything you would want to teach me?

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/9/2005 10:39 pm

jonny - am I an older woman you think you could enjoy?

sincitybrunette 55F
1668 posts
10/17/2005 10:26 pm

sizzle. so true

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